Wow! Thanks for all of the supportive posts!

I really was feeling guilty about posting our "less than magical" experience at the WL. I plan to take your wonderful advise and write the lodge's general manager. I'll update with a response, if/when I receive one!
To answer your questions: Yes, we knew that our requests were just that...we never expect them to be filled, and in fact, didn't even reiterate them upon check-in. We would of been perfectly happy with a courtyard view room with a view of anything BUT men working on the balcony! The CM who brought up our special requests really shot herself in the foot...SHE set our expectations, not the other way around.
And yes, we did go to the "quiet" pool at the Villas. While not as overrun as the main pool, it too was very crowded and we noted several toddlers sans diapers swimming. Yikes! (Not Disney's fault, just not very inviting!) I guess we've been spoiled by the other deluxes with quiet pools that are actually quiet!
And yes, we were at the WL shortly after Easter. We expected it to be more crowded than usual, but we didn't expect to be treated badly for being one of the crowd! The parks were particularly crowded, making the resort even more important to the vacation. Our room was so uninviting, it really put a damper on things (and hey, I'm pregnant, so maybe more sensitive to everything right now!)
And finally, we had already taken our "big Disney" trip this year...in October to the GF and enjoyed a very magical (only slightly discounted!) vacation. The only reason we even went on this trip was because of the Military Salute discounts. We have all lived under the added stress of my husband being in the Air Force since September 11 and we felt that a little Disney magic would do us all some good! We managed to salvage a good vacation, not because of the WL, but inspite of it! Disney is still a wonderful vacation destination and we will return time and again!
Again, thanks for the support! I hope that if you are about to make the trip to WDW, you have a terrific time and encounter the magic around every corner!
