Training Thursday and Well Being Week-end Combo
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This is going to be the last musing that I post for the month as I think it is going to be a quiet week-end while everyone enjoys the Labor Day holiday. This final thought for the challenge is courtesy of weightwatchers.com.
Give Yourself a Break
Stop the negative chatter in your head. You wouldn't talk that way to a friend, right? Try these kinder (and smarter) tactics.
1. Make a list of your many positive qualities.
Read your list often. It could include anything from being a good singer to a loving parent. List every attribute that makes you a worthwhile, likable individual.
2. Pay yourself a compliment every day.
Focus on a different attribute your strong hands, good fashion sense, killer poker skills and say out loud: "I love my ___." It may sound forced at first, but it can be a useful counter to self-doubt.
3. Do things you know will help you feel better about yourself.
This could be anything from getting a new hairstyle to rearranging your fridge for healthy eating. Tackle the easiest first, to build confidence in future efforts.
4. Give yourself regular (non-food) treats.
Buy yourself flowers, take spontaneous day trips. You'd do these things to make loved ones feel good; aren't you worth the same consideration?
5. Spend time with those who care about you.
You'll soon share their good opinion of yourself! If there aren't as many supportive people in your social circle as you'd like, consider ways of expanding it to increase your chances of positive feedback. Ask yourself: "Who will help me feel good about myself?" (Like, say, your fellow meeting members?)
6. Avoid situations that keep you in a state of self-doubt.
Even long-term relationships might call for a clear-eyed reappraisal if they leave you feeling bad. Perhaps there's a critical relative or colleague who always seems to undermine you. Are forever seeking someone's approval but never getting it? Rather than simply taking the criticism, you could:
Retreat from the relationship a bit. Stop hoping for approval.
Respond more assertively to harsh remarks (Example: "I feel bad when you call me 'stupid.' I'd prefer that you treated me with more respect.")
7. Try a little kindness.
Instead of beating yourself up whenever you goof up, give yourself the benefit of the doubt, same as you would anyone else. Focus on your achievements, not faults. Chances are, once you start looking, you'll be surprised at just how many there are!
WATP Musing Training Thursday and Well Being Week-end Combo August 27, 2014 and August 30, 2014: How will you give yourself a little break as we approach the end of this month's challenge?