True, depends on many things. For me, traveling with young kids, a lot of those options, just wouldn't be options. And again, the timing wouldn't work etc... so yeah, it all depends on circumstances. If we were traveling without kids, or they were older, I could definitely see being more flexible. That said, I'm all for flexibility and spur of the moment and just winging it to an extent, but oddly enough, not really meal times. Maybe it's because my husband is one of those people where when we want to eat out it goes like this:
Me: "Where would you like to eat tonight?"
Him: "Oh, I don't care. Whatever you want. You decide."
Me: "What about this place?"
Him: "Well, no, I don't think I'm in the mood for that..."
And on we go down the list.
So the idea of having to search for reservations and choosing spur of the moment on vacation, does not even remotely sound appealing to me, lol. To me, "relaxing", is having reservations made in advance so I know that come dinner time, there won't be any indecisive conversations and time wasted humming and hawing, lol.