Just my opinion, but having updates turned off could be dangerous. They also put security fixes in the updates, and with more and more cyber attacks being launched, keeping up to date with security patches is a good idea.
Yes, you've warned about this before. Thanks. I know that with the example of the gas pipeline being hit with a ransomware attack, it shows how leaving oneself vulnerable to cyber attacks is becoming more common and super serious. As it turns out, when I was poking around my computer trying to figure out why I got this download, if my metered connection was still on, and how to undo the updates that screwed up my computer, I found this description, stating Windows has started sneaking certain updates in. I assume (hope) they are probably the critical security patches.
Hmm, I wonder if that's when my computer started getting glitchy.

As mentioned, I was about to buy a new laptop before they sold out. Now, I really
need the new laptop before this one dies.
I have mine set to turn off regular auto updates. When they do some kind of security patch, I get a message about something waiting to be updated or similar words. Far too many regular updates are for software I will never use. I think they need to stop adding new features with each release for stuff 95% of the users have no need. I looked at how many different fonts there are. Honestly who needs a gazillion types of fonts? I tried deleting them but they reappeared the next time I logged on............LOL.
Exactly! It isn't the security patches being installed that I object to. It's all the bloatware junk they add on, that changes our settings, appearance, etc, that I can't stand. The update that nearly "bricked" my laptop installed a different color taskbar at the bottom of the screen that had a little box showing the weather. Also some other stuff in the Windows Start menu. I didn't even bother looking at those, as I never use the Start menu. I have all the icons I need on my desktop.
Microsoft needs to separate out the critical updates from all this other, unnecessary stuff. We should be ASKED each time if we want the new, unnecessary "improvements" before installing.
For instance, when my new laptop arrives, I will install all the current updates to be up to date, including the new taskbar & Star menu stuff. Mostly so it won't force it on me later.
Then I'll turn on the metered Internet connection so I only get the critical patches.