Will TarzansKat meet Captain Jack? ~A Pirate's Life for 3 Pre-Trippie~ We're back!

That is too cool!

:lmao: about the weather gods!

Your new pirate costume is tres cool! You are so creative!
You know I didn't think it was anything fancy until everyone started telling me how creative I was! Yeah me! I guess that art school degree didn't go to waste after all. :rotfl2:

What a dilemma about the bank! :worried:
I don't know what to do. I would hate, hate, hate to transfer somewhere and be miserable when I am happy now, just not happy with my commute which is bound to change once DS gets into school since I won't be driving the additional bit to my mother's.
 
You know I didn't think it was anything fancy until everyone started telling me how creative I was! Yeah me! I guess that art school degree didn't go to waste after all. :rotfl2:

Nope, it definitely didn't go to waste!

I don't know what to do. I would hate, hate, hate to transfer somewhere and be miserable when I am happy now, just not happy with my commute which is bound to change once DS gets into school since I won't be driving the additional bit to my mother's.

I know you said before how long the commute was, but how long is it?
 
Ahhh...the wonderful decisons of life. I so feel for you TK, even though I am not in your boat yet, hopefully I will be very soon, meaning a family.
I think where you work and how you mesh with your co-workers is very, very important. My job is so enjoyable right now because of my cubicle mate, but I couldn't imagine doing my job without her.
Are you going to cancel the interview all together if you get called in for one?
Good for you buckling down with the savings. I hope to take a page out of your book after the wedding and really buckle down. I would love to be able to stay home for a year...but I don't see it happening. A gal can dream. :cloud9:
 
Nope, it definitely didn't go to waste!
I know you said before how long the commute was, but how long is it?
Actually, it's not a bad drive. On days that I don't have to bring DS to my mother's it only takes me 15 minutes to get there on backroads, sometimes 20 if I'm stuck behind someone slow. And I should add that I don't mind the drive. It's time for me to decompress. I only thought of the gas, etc, and cost. It's days when I get to my mother's after getting out of work at 300 and discover DS wasn't put down for a nap until 200, and he decides to sleep until 430 or 5 that I hate my commute, because then I'm rushing to get home and figure out a healthy choice for dinner and it's frustrating and hard not to just buy McDonalds.

Ahhh...the wonderful decisons of life. I so feel for you TK, even though I am not in your boat yet, hopefully I will be very soon, meaning a family.
I think you'll be a wonderful mom.:goodvibes
I think where you work and how you mesh with your co-workers is very, very important. My job is so enjoyable right now because of my cubicle mate, but I couldn't imagine doing my job without her.
I couldn't agree more. I mean, I've had some days where I've though what the heck is wrong with her, meaning different co-workers LOL, but all in all, we do get along very, very well.
Are you going to cancel the interview all together if you get called in for one?
I don't know. I feel like I need to go there and see it for myself, and that if I cancelled I would look like a complete flake unless DH had already talked to his boss about insurance and they were willing to pick it up, kwim?
Good for you buckling down with the savings. I hope to take a page out of your book after the wedding and really buckle down. I would love to be able to stay home for a year...but I don't see it happening. A gal can dream. :cloud9:
I can't emphasize how hard it is for us to try to do this. It's going to be trial and error with what percentage of my salary can really go towards this, but we've got to try. If you don't try, you'll never know.:thumbsup2
 

I think you'll be a wonderful mom.:goodvibes
Thank you so much! :goodvibes

I can't emphasize how hard it is for us to try to do this. It's going to be trial and error with what percentage of my salary can really go towards this, but we've got to try. If you don't try, you'll never know.:thumbsup2
I really admire all that you do, I aspire to be able to juggle everything like you do when the time comes. If TK can handle it, LL can too! :hug:
 
Actually, it's not a bad drive. On days that I don't have to bring DS to my mother's it only takes me 15 minutes to get there on backroads, sometimes 20 if I'm stuck behind someone slow. And I should add that I don't mind the drive. It's time for me to decompress. I only thought of the gas, etc, and cost. It's days when I get to my mother's after getting out of work at 300 and discover DS wasn't put down for a nap until 200, and he decides to sleep until 430 or 5 that I hate my commute, because then I'm rushing to get home and figure out a healthy choice for dinner and it's frustrating and hard not to just buy McDonalds.

The naps/rushing home would be the most stressful for me, so I can identify.

You are going to think I am totally fruity, but here's something to think about. DS probably won't be taking his nap on a regular basis for too much longer -- both of mine (much to my chagrin) gave them up in their 3's (it was a sad time for me because I coveted my time when they were asleep). So, there's one more thing to consider.
 
I really admire all that you do, I aspire to be able to juggle everything like you do when the time comes. If TK can handle it, LL can too! :hug:
Okay, I am really, truly flattered that you think I am able to handle everything.:hug: At least I give off a good impression! :lmao:

No, I know I do a lot, but I never look at it that way until the days when I'm exhausted and I think why am I working? OH yeah, health insurance...right...:thumbsup2

The naps/rushing home would be the most stressful for me, so I can identify.
It's a double-edged sword because he loves being at my parents. Some nights we just eat there, but it puts me getting home later for our whole night time routine and my getting ready for work the next day.

You are going to think I am totally fruity, but here's something to think about. DS probably won't be taking his nap on a regular basis for too much longer -- both of mine (much to my chagrin) gave them up in their 3's (it was a sad time for me because I coveted my time when they were asleep). So, there's one more thing to consider.
No, it's possible he'll be giving them up soon. But I'm not so sure. He's a solid 2-3 hour napper, and very, very rarely skips a nap. That boy loves him some sleep.::yes::
 
It really is such a simple costume and will take up such a small amount of room in my suitcase. I'll probably pack both sashes and see how I feel when I get there. It's always good to have an extra sash!

That is essentially my costume for MPPP! Although for my sash I'm using a black scarf I have on hand. I know, I know, just plain fabric isn't all that expensive, but I'm all for saving wherever I can :goodvibes
 
I think where you work and how you mesh with your co-workers is very, very important. My job is so enjoyable right now because of my cubicle mate, but I couldn't imagine doing my job without her.

I second this. At my job, all the people I liked best were temps. Which really, really sucks. (My employer is incredibly bad about hiring people. I have a large soapbox about this I could drag out, but I'm not going to hijack the thread.) In any case, it means that all the people I liked and made connections with are gone or are leaving. I'm not as fond of the permanent staff. If you like your current group, I think that's a big plus for staying where you are.
 
That is essentially my costume for MPPP! Although for my sash I'm using a black scarf I have on hand. I know, I know, just plain fabric isn't all that expensive, but I'm all for saving wherever I can :goodvibes

Isn't it just the easiest most comfortable way to be a pirate? And you're leaving so soon!!! I'm jealous. ;)

I second this. At my job, all the people I liked best were temps. Which really, really sucks. (My employer is incredibly bad about hiring people. I have a large soapbox about this I could drag out, but I'm not going to hijack the thread.) In any case, it means that all the people I liked and made connections with are gone or are leaving. I'm not as fond of the permanent staff. If you like your current group, I think that's a big plus for staying where you are.

Believe me, I know. I worked retail for a very, very long time after college...let's just leave it at that. Talk about turnover...the good ones never last very long. And not to pat myself on the back, but case in point, besides the girl that works Saturdays, I'm the only other teller that has been there since I started about 2.5 years ago. Every one else is different. Now granted, most of them have been there about 2 years, but we have some new ones as well. And we do mesh very well...but I also know I can't count on these people to be there forever. Things always change.
 
Cute pirate costume! Looks comfy enough for an evening at MK!

I'm sorry about your whole work dilemma...DH and I talk all the time about what will happen when we have kids. Such a tough decision!
 
Cute pirate costume! Looks comfy enough for an evening at MK!
Thanks! I think it'll do just fine, and comfort is key.:thumbsup2

I'm sorry about your whole work dilemma...DH and I talk all the time about what will happen when we have kids. Such a tough decision!

Thanks for the support. In regard to having kids, it's really important to have a plan, and also to know that you may throw that whole plan out the window in favor of something else. I never thought I'd work, I always wanted to be a stay at home mom, but when DH lost his job and we were both out of work, then it was the mad dash. And since I carry the health insurance, we're stuck. It would great if DH could take on that burden with some help from his employer, but we'll just have to see. :goodvibes
 
So many memories. I have so many memories of past trips to the World, the people I've gone with, the rides, the food, the fun. I don't think that you'll fully be able to understand me or why I love this place so much if I don't offer you some of my memories, and my dreams.

I feel as though there are so many to choose from. As I lie in my hammock at night aboard the Black Pearl, the gentle sway of the ship lulling me to sleep, its easy to get lost in my memories and dreams.

So if you'd like to join me, come aboard, mates.

We'll begin with the one.

Since this trip is A Pirate's Life for 3, I think it most important to start with the man who made that 3 possible. ;)

And that is my wonderful DH. For the beginning of us, I'll give you the abbreviated version.

We met in college while I was dating someone else. DH sort of lost hope for a while, and then said to himself, forget about it, she's the one. And started flirting with me and subtly persuing me in his oh so suave Italian way. Didn't take long folks. I didn't stand a chance.

Three months after we met, we were engaged. We remained engaged all through college, and married a year after we graduated. I felt it was important to take that time to work, save some money, and just be ourselves out of school. I didn't want to feel like I went straight into a marriage without any breathing room. I was a wise girl.::yes::

We took many trips to Disney during our courtship, but I have three favorites. One was our first trip alone to Disney. It was the end of the school year and I was tooling around on the internet and came across a really good deal on a room at All Star Sports. I swear to this day, it must have been someone's cancelled vacation. I don't remember how long we went for. I don't remember every park we went to, or every ride we rode. I just remember that it was great. We slept as long as we wanted, woke up when we wanted, and ate when we wanted, before all the hoopla about dining plans and ADRs and all of that. And it was great!

Another was after we were married and got an awesome AP discount on the Animal Kingdom Lodge. Our mousekeeper was hilarious. We would come back to the room to find the stuffed dog that we won had "wet" the newspaper, with a little note that said, "Oops, sorry." The plush dino we won in AK we found one day with his head in our popcorn bucket from MK. The next day, we left him with the TV remote in his paw, watching TV. When we returned, he was tucked in with a note that said "no, no, time for bed." Every night we went back to the room, I would about die from laughing to see what our mousekeeper had done. Obviously, we had a great time at the parks and all, but that was seriously a fun resort stay.

My favorite is obviously our honeymoon. I was a cast member at the Disney Store in my state, and I got a 50% discount on the Grand Floridan concierge. Now, that, my friends, is the way to honeymoon. I would really venture to say that is one of the best vacations I've ever taken in my entire life. We went for ten days, made very few reservations, and had a fantastic time. The CM who booked our stay knew we were on our honeymoon, so a photo and autos from Beauty and the Beast were waiting for us in the room. My mom had the bridal ears and top hat delivered, but she also had them painted on with our names and the date of our wedding. We got so many compliments when we wore those, and I have a great picture of us in front of Spaceship Earth on our last day. We had booked Citricos for our first night dinner, and at the end of the meal discovered my mother had picked up the whole tab. There will be a whole chapter about her too, don't worry.;)

I specifically remember that the day we went to the AK and went on Kali River Rapids, it started raining. Since we were already wet, we thought, what they hey, and stayed to watch the parade. As we were making our way out of the park to our bus to the Grand Flo, it got heavier and heavier. When we got out of the bus, it was pouring! It was so bad that it was flooding in front of our building and ducks were waddling through the walkway like they were happy as pie. DH and I were hysterical, trying to run through the water to get to our building, and eventually he looked at me and said, take off your sandals! :rotfl2: They were those big chunky platform Mickey sandals, anyone remember those? Not good for running.:lmao: So I did, and we made it so much faster. DH always, always knows how to make me laugh. That is without a doubt one of my favorite honeymoon moments, because into everyone's life a little rain must fall. It's all what you do with it.

I remember how much money we saved on dining by staying concierge, because they always had wonderful, decadent gourmet snack items out. And I remember the night we went to Gasparilla Grill and Games and got my favorite chicken strips ever for dinner, and happened upon the Magic Kingdom fireworks outside. I could go on and on, but you get the idea.

I've had some really good trips with DH, just the two of us.

But then we became three....

To be cont'd...
 
Awww. I have a big goofy grin on my face and a few misty tears in my eyes. What a nice nice story! :lovestruc

I hope DF and I can have those kind of moments on the cruise and at WDW.
 
Awww. I have a big goofy grin on my face and a few misty tears in my eyes. What a nice nice story! :lovestruc

I hope DF and I can have those kind of moments on the cruise and at WDW.

What a great story!

I hope DBF and I can make memories as wonderful as what you just posted TK. :goodvibes

Aww...you both totally will. Nothing like Disney with the one you love. And may I point out to treasure the alone time, because eventually, you may have kids! :lmao:
 


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