Will I regret getting dd a hamster?

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DD is begging for a pet. We cannot get a dog or cat because DS is allergic. I don't know if he would be allergic to the hamster but I think if we only let him watch it through the cage and keep it in DD's room, he'll be ok.

How much work is a hamster? Does anyone have any experience or other alternative pets they can recommend?
 
How old are your children? Hamsters should not be kept in bedrooms, because they're nocturnal and run on the wheel all night (and it's cruel not to have a wheel). I'm allergic to cats, not dogs, rats, but not hamsters.
 
Will I regret getting dd a hamster?


In a word...yes. Our problem was that they just don't live very long and it crushed my girls everytime one died. So after 3 deaths, I said no more. They love cats and dogs, but I am very, very allergic also.
 
DD talked about getting a hamster and I spoke to my friend who worked as a vet tech and she suggested a guinea pig instead. They live longer, they're easier to bathe, and they don't get lost as easily. She gave a couple other reasons, but I can't remember what they were. We did get one and really liked it, but we had to find her a new home when we moved.
 

I will just tell you my experience. I am a big dog person. Years ago, DH was in law school and we did not have time for a dog and kids wanted a pet. We got two teddy bear hamsters. Cutest little things, but they smelled up my house something terrible. Worse than any great dane I have had. I tried to keep the cages clean, but the smell was just awful. They also did not live very long, which was hard on the boys.
 
I researched this a bit when ds8 fell in love with a gerbil in his class. The issue was I wanted a hamster because I thought they were cuter. Here's just a quick pro/com list comparing the 2:
http://www.abcgerbils.com/versus.html

In a nutshell, gerbils would have been a better choice since they are on a round the clock schedule, so eat/sleep/are active on and off 24/7 vs hamsters which are nocturnal. Gerbils also don't bite as much (when handled regularly) because your not startling them from sleep to play, not to mention they are much funnier to watch overall (and don't stink like hamsters).

On the flip side I would have needed to get over the fact they look more like a mouse and have beady eyes and long tails. In the end we ended up not being able to get one though because dh is severely allergic to anything with fur and yes that included animals in the rodent family. :sad2:

We ended up with a fish which died in a year.
 
Let me tell you our experience. My dd25 bought my ds8 and dd5 a Robo hamster for Easter of this year. She came home and was talking about how the cage at the petshop had about 100 hamsters and they all slept in one big pile. So we got to worrying that maybe Peanut would be lonely. We went back and bought another one and named it Butter. The petshop said it was very difficult to tell the gender of these hamsters (we have since learned that it is very simple in fact). Well, you can guess what happened - exactly 30 days later my dd5 runs into my room screaming "we've got babies". I go out and sure enough there are 3 little babies laying there in a pile. A few minutes later "mommy, there's a baby coming out of her bottom". In all, she ended up having 8 babies. Only 4 survived. Peanut is in a cage by himself - the day after the babies were born, he was wanting to mate again and was holding babies captive - one drowned in the water bowl. Butter (the momma) ate 3 of the babies. So now we have Peanut in one cage, the 3 females (momma and 2 pups) in one cage and the 2 male pups in another. They are absolutely adorable and very friendly - but you have to change the cages every 3 days or they do start to smell - it is getting rather expensive.
 
Will I regret getting a hamster.....for me that is a big ole YES!!!!! Been there, done that, won't do it again :rotfl:

My daughter wanted a hamster and I gave in and got her one. It was the most wonderful thing in the world for about a week. Then she had NOTHING to do with it. I was the one that then had to care for it. He lived for a good long while and then he passed away. It was WEEKS before my daughter even realized he was gone. We will stick with cats and dogs here. Those the kids enjoy and play with.
 
I think it's one of those YMMV things. I had hamsters as a kid, and yes, they didn't live long enough and it was so sad to lose them -- and yes, they smelled -- but they only go potty in one corner of your cage, so you could even do a short-cut cleaning and clean out that one corner. Then you could do a complete cage cleaning on a different schedule.

As a parent, I got my guys hamsters after our beloved dogs died and I couldn't bear to get a new one. Big mistake -- we fell in love with the guineas just as much as with the dogs, and when the guineas passed, it was incredibly hard, too! They're such cheerful little guys.

Now, if the question were: guinea pigs or hamsters? I'd say, guineas. They're so much more interactive and fun. The hamsters are nocturnal so they're sleeping when you want to play. The guineas got to the point that they'd squeal and whistle if they even heard you coming -- too cute.

All that said, will you regret it? Dunno. :rotfl:
 
We just went through this with my allergy-plagued DD. We considered the whole small rodent spectrum, and in the end, got two hermit crabs. (OK, tipping the scales was DH's recollection of lost/missing hamsters as a kid!)

The hermit crabs are alot more, well, entertaining than I expected. They do best with at least one other one. They can live in a 10 gallon aquarium.

Our costs:
tank (we had, but ask around or check goodwill. Lots of them sitting in people's basements, I think, lol.)
2 bags gravel- $7
sea sponge (they need this for drinking) $2
you can buy food/water dishes, we are using small plastic tupperware-type dishes.
Food $2 (which should last a LONG time)
Changing shells (they grow/need new ones)- I bought a bag of natural shells at Michaels for $3

I'm told they live approx 5 years. Cleaning cage is once every week, or so, but can obviously reuse the gravel vs needing new shavings with a rodent.
 
On the subject of allergies - is a non-shedding dog an option? My DB had severe allergies and asthma as a child but there were about three breeds that he was able to tolerate. We ended up with a poodle and he had no trouble with him. This was a boy who typically spent five or six nights in emergency during the height of allergy season and the rest of the time my parents had to take turns sleeping sitting in a chair with him to keep him upright so his lungs didn't fill up.

I've never had a hamster but we did get DD a dwarf bunny a few years ago. We had the bunny for about 6 months but we also got a labradoodle about two months after the bunny and as soon as he grew tall enough to look in the cage he stalked that poor rabbit. It just huddled in the corner and quivered in fear. I was afraid it would have a heart attack, so since our babysitter was planning in getting one for her sons, we gave her ours. She said it got along great with her cat and wasn't afraid of it.

During the time we had it I had to clean the cage every other day or the smell was unbearable. Half the time I ended up doing it every day because I couldn't stand it. Bunnies can supposedly be litter trained and this one was supposed to be (we got him older) but as far as I could tell he WOULD go in the litter...or any other part of the cage that suited him.
 
We got hamsters for our children and I will NEVER allow them in the house again. One died within a month (due to fighting with the other hamster) and the other died at about 7 months for no apparent reason. The biggest issue for me was they stunk. Even if I cleaned the cage twice a day I still couldn't stand the smell. We kept them in my ds's room and he was never bothered by the noise of the wheel, but nothing wakes this child up.
 
My middle child was given a hamster from her preschool teachers as one teacher hated the things. I was not a happy camper but did not want to break her heart either. In the end I had my youngest and the hamster was forgotten about as the older kids loved having their baby sister to play with and help take care of. I ended up walking in the room and finding the hamster with no water and realized it needed a new home fast. I found a friend to take it and they loved the thing. It would get in its ball and roll around their house and tease the dogs. It lived for quite awhile.
 
I suggest a guinea pig instead. If you are prepared to assist her in taking care of it, cleaning the cage weekly, and supervising the care, I think it is a great lesson in caring for an animal and I have enjoyed this bonding time with my kids with their pets (guinea pigs, birds, fish) We have a dog (mine!), but I have them help me with his care as well. If you can't live on a farm, I think it's important for them to have to care for another living animal. (disclaimer - I love animals) Good luck!
 
My guess is yes you will regret it. We used to bring them home from school over Christmas break to take care of them, and they were really cute and fun for a couple weeks as long as they weren't staying in anyone's bedroom. I had a boyfriend give me one as a gift in college. He thought I would adore it because I couldn't have a dog in the dorm and I missed having a pet. I'm an animal lover but I have to admit I kind of hated that hamster. That thing was up all night long and kept my roommate and I up all night. Even if we took the wheel out, he still found a way to make noise and keep us up. They smell too no matter how much you clean the cage. My roomate and I finally couldn't take it anymore and gave it back to the boyfriend and said you bought it, you take care of it. If you keep one in a room where no one can hear him it night, it might not be that bad, but they really don't live long which can be heartbreaking for a kid. You might look into the "Hypoallergenic" dog breeds. There are certain dogs that don't shed which are good for kids with allergies. I know the Havanese and Maltese are in that category because they don't shed, but I don't know what other ones there are.
 
Go with a guinea pig. They are big enough to hold, don't bite, sleep at night and live 4 or 5 years. Yes they poop and pee like everything else, and waste has an odor. The cage needs to be pretty big, and cleaned regularly. No wire floors they are prone to foot problems if they live on wire. They are great first pets. Unlike hamsters (which will fight to the death) they are social and are happy in pairs. If kept alone, they will need attention and time out of the cage. Mine have an outdoor pen where (supervised, we have lots of hawks) they love to munch on grass. Good luck.
 
Yes. They're dirty, their poo gets all matted into their fur by their butt, they smell, their cages need changed constantly, they bite, it's expensive, they run away if you let them out & they poo on your carpet, they EAT all the tunnels and expensive stuff you buy them......

you will regret it. 1005
 
I guess I'll be the one to disagree with all others. I think hamsters are wonderful pets for children (age 8 & up). They for our family were the perfect first pet. My children learned responsability, compassion, care, and even learned about grief. Do we want our children to learn about grief? If everyone could live forever there would be no point, but thats not reality, so having a hamster where the life expectancy is anywhere on average from 2 to 3 years, was also a great lesson in grief. For children to learn how to deal with grief I feel is a very important life lesson we all need to learn some coping skills with. We've had many hamsters come through our home, a few died way before they should have, but most including the ones we currently have lived there full life expectancy. Of the current 2 we have, one is 2 1/2 and the other is already 3 and so far still living! My son, who owns these two, has an enormous cage for them in his room. Their night noise does not bother him. With the exception of one, none of our hamsters have ever bitten anyone. I help keep the cage clean, and don't mind it. Stuff can get matted in fur of "Teddy Bear" hamsters, but we've never had that issue with the short hair hamsters.
A pet like this is not for every family. If mom or dad end up doing most of the work in taking care of it's basic needs, at least it's only for a couple of years rather than longer wtih a guinea pig, should the same issue happen.
We now have TOO many pets, (two dogs, a fish, a guinea pig, a rabbit and two hamsters), so I've informed my kids there won't be anymore hamsters in the near future once these current two pass away. (daughter just came home with the guinea pig recently, errrghhhh). Each of the kids has experienced hamsters (4 children), and now with the bigger pets, It's time to say enough, for now.

If you do decide to get a hamster, read up on all the care first. Hamsters are solitary animals in most cases. They are together when young yes, but are supposed to be separated by sexes around 6 weeks old. They can become pregnant as early as a few months old, but not a good idea as mothers that are just still babies themselves do tend to eat their newborns. Fathers must be removed from the cage preferably before their young are born. Hamsters are fine on thier own though, they do NOT need a buddy.

My children have fun watching their antics, let them rolll round safely in their ball on the living room floor and love building mazes from their cardboard bricks for the little things, and have fun watching them try to find their way through the maze to a treat at the other end. There are bedding types you can buy now that are made of some kind of paper instead of shavings. Many of these new types are subtly scented and aren't as messy as shavings. Having a water bottle is less messy than a water bowl. There are wheels you can get now that aren't as noisy as the older metal ones.
 
I have had several hamsters over the years and I LOVE them. I have never had one that bit anyone, as long as you put some time into taming them as a baby they will be fine. We have never had a problem with their cages smelling either - they urinate in one place so it's really easy to just remove the wood shavings (or whatever) from that part of the cage every couple of days, then we clean the whole cage out once a week or so. Also we have only ever had Syrian hamsters which live alone, so no problem with fighting or unwanted babies!

My daughter is 7, she had one hamster a couple of years ago who was just gorgeous but she sadly died in April this year. A week later dd was ready for another (I wasn't, but still ...) and we now have the friendliest, cutest hamster I have ever had. As soon as she wakes up she comes to the corner of her cage to look for us, we just open the flap on the top of the cage and she climbs out herself, she will sit for ages on the sofa with us and play, and she loves running around in her ball. Sometimes she does get up quite late so it is me (or dh) who looks after her then, but for us that's not a problem as she's a family pet - but a lot of them time she will get up around 6pm when she hears us in the living room so plenty of time for dd to play with her and care for her as well.
 
Why not a lizard of some sort?? They don't shed and they don't smell too much.

Jill...Mom/owner of 2 cockatiels, 8 parakeets, 1 hamster, 1 anole lizard and 4 cats....
 












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