Will going by myself be boring and lonely?

[DisneyJunkie4]

I was telling some friends of mine that I want to go to Disney but they don't so I said I'll just go myself and they said that's stupid because it'll be boring and lonely. Is going solo not as glamorous as it sounds? I don't want to spend all my money and be unhappy

 

[sakura]

Don't worry about being lonely; I went solo for the first time back in 2010 and had an awesome time. I found that I talked more with others in the park and had just as much fun as when I went with my mom. You will have the freedom to do what you want when you want.

One of my favorite things I did (if you want to have dinner with someone) is to go the restaurant in the Germany pavilion in Epcot. I was seated with 2 other couples at the same table and had a great time talking with them.

I loved going solo so much I have my second solo trip planned for this October.

 

[NewYorkRedNeck]

I love going solo. It's totally your vacation and no worries about having to please someone else.

 

[Amysita]

It is impossible to be bored @ Disney! You'd have to be a real Debbie Downer to be bored. And the lonely part...so long as you put forth the tiniest of effort...you will make friends everywhere you go...folks are happy, chatty, and I often times find myself being asked to join folks at the next table when dining to join them, share a ride (or two) in the parks, save my seat for a parade /fireworks because mother nature calls, take pix for each other, etc. One time I met a woman who was solo from England...and we hung out all day long, we chatted, played in the parks, ate, had a cocktail, it was as if we'd known each other all our lives...we were even asked a few times if we were sisters.

 

[roxysmum123]

No way, was never bored on any of my solo trips. I did tours that I wouldn't have been able to do if I'd travelled with other people, kept my own schedule, did what I wanted, when I wanted. It was great. On one trip, I even met a guy I dated for a few months after and am still friends with years later. Never know what can happen when you go to Disney solo!

 

[Art 1]

I've never been bored or lonely when solo at WDW. No way for us to know how it will be for you.

 

[karly05]

I'm going to put in a disclaimer here, and ask how easily do you feel bored or lonely away from Disney? I enjoy doing things solo in everyday life (going to the movies, etc), and I never get bored on my own. Having the run of WDW by myself was awesome. I've known plenty of people, however, who are just happier and more comfortable with friends and family to "do things with." I think only you know how much you'll enjoy being on your own. But, if it sounds like fun, don't let others turn you off to it.

 

[weeksid]

I have the exactly the same worries; however, it is more about feeling strange or embarrassed about being alone (especially eating alone). My husband does not want to join me and my girlfriend just backed out of our trip in September.

 

[nic100308]

I'm going to put in a disclaimer here, and ask how easily do you feel bored or lonely away from Disney? I enjoy doing things solo in everyday life (going to the movies, etc)

There is some definite truth in this.

I also enjoy/am comfortable doing things on my own so when I was by myself in February I actually had a great time.

DF was down in Orlando for business so I tagged along and toured the parks during the day by myself. I had an opportunity to do things that I often overlook: ie Behind the Seeds (ride and tour) various shows, the street performers in the parks. Not to mention the single rider lines.

I am a pretty friendly person but I did talk to a lot more people than I normally do. A few times I pulled up a chair in Italy with a glass of wine and read my nook for a little.

It was a great experience. I will admit that at first I was a little lost. The sheer freedom to do whatever I wanted was a strange feeling at first, however all in all I had a really wonderful time.

 

[kgoodb00]

I was telling some friends of mine that I want to go to Disney but they don't so I said I'll just go myself and they said that's stupid because it'll be boring and lonely. Is going solo not as glamorous as it sounds? I don't want to spend all my money and be unhappy

I am here at Disney for my first solo trip ever! When I first arrived it was a little lonely because you see everyone with their families but almost everyone I walked past said HI! And all the CM's were so nice and talkative. And since I have facebook and all my family and friends are just a phone call or text message away, it definitely makes it less lonely!

A lot of my friends and even some family members made fun of me for wanting to come all by myself, but seriously this is going to be the best trip ever! I am so excited to do what I want when I want. Every time I have been to Disney before, the mornings have been so hectic and everyone is cranky by the end of the day. Since I am by myself, I get up when I want and just slowly get ready without anyone bothering me to hurry up! And when I get cranky and tired I just head to my room and take a nap or go to bed! It's magical and definitely a once in a lifetime opportunity!

So, don't worry about anything! Do what you want to do and enjoy every moment!!!!

 

[erincon23]

I'm 6 weeks out from my second solo trip, and I can't wait! On the first, I was in touch with home frequently, but this time, I probably won't talk to DH more than once or twice (he and the boys are going on a big boys-only camping trip). I agree, though-- if you have trouble doing things on your own to begin with, like eating out or going to the movies, this might be a little tough for you -- not that you shouldn't do it -- but you might want to plan in ways to have some additional "human contact," like planning to pin trade, or find something to celebrate (birthday, etc) and get a special button.

I found that first solo trip to be relaxing! I could do what I wanted when I wanted, explore stuff the boys had no interest in, not have to fight over the hotel bathroom. This time, I'm doing the above things (pin trade, b-day button), but planning a little less than I did last time and keeping things a little looser. I think you could have a very good time if you go into it with a good attitude!

 

[erinscreen]

I am taking my first solo trip in October and I am super excited! I am single anyway, so I am used to doing the things that I want to do whenever I want

I think the things I am most excited to do solo are going to the restaurants I want to try (Sanaa and Restaurant Marrakesh) and taking lots of time to relax. Taking things at my own pace is pretty important.

I may also take the advice of some others here and do a tour or two--that is a great idea!

 

[weeksid]

Thanks to all of your wonderful posts, I think I am actually going to go solo! I never imagined that I would ever go on a vacation by myself; however, I can't think of a better place to start than Disneyworld.

 

[ZehnJahren]

I do a lot alone in my everyday life; DBF and I are together a lot (we even work at the same place), but we're not that couple who needs EVERY MINUTE together so we often do our own thing too.

That being said, I did a partially solo trip in October (my mom met me down there), and then did a totally solo trip in January, and now I'm very much looking forward to my second, longer solo trip upcoming in September! I wasn't lonely at all - I enjoyed having the big bed to myself and doing what I wanted when I wanted it. DBF enjoyed having time to do whatever he wanted back at home, too. I ended up hurting my legs pretty bad from going full-out in the parks, and even alone at first aid with an ice pack on my legs I was ok with being alone.

Everyone is super friendly, every place is pretty darn safe, transportation can't be beat, and you never feel alone - you're just surrounded by 1000's of friends. I had someone to chat with in every line, and when I didn't, I was on my phone sending pics or updating social media, or just reading and planning.

This time, I'm hoping to stay at BCV and spend a day lounging at Stormalong Bay, hopefully with a drink in my hand! Aaaah, can't wait!

 

[annieb727]

I love doing things on my own as well. I am a person who NEEDS time alone. To do what I want. I did a trip to Disneyland on my own back in 2006 and it was FANTASTIC. I do solo trips to the beach quite frequently. I am going on a SOLO trip for 8 nights in June. I am SO excited.

 

[WizardLarz]

You can wing it the whole trip if you want Or plan to hit the Restuarants that you know You will like and not worry about anyone complaining. You can take a tour or two. Go at any pace - fast in the morning to hit the Major rides and the slow it down, soaking the magic the rest of the day. Park hop when you get bored in the current Park. Plus the next time you go with someone else you won't mind if they want to do certain things because you crossed off all you 'Must Do's' on this solo trip.

 

[weeksid]

I do a lot alone in my everyday life; DBF and I are together a lot (we even work at the same place), but we're not that couple who needs EVERY MINUTE together so we often do our own thing too.

That being said, I did a partially solo trip in October (my mom met me down there), and then did a totally solo trip in January, and now I'm very much looking forward to my second, longer solo trip upcoming in September! I wasn't lonely at all - I enjoyed having the big bed to myself and doing what I wanted when I wanted it. DBF enjoyed having time to do whatever he wanted back at home, too. I ended up hurting my legs pretty bad from going full-out in the parks, and even alone at first aid with an ice pack on my legs I was ok with being alone.

Everyone is super friendly, every place is pretty darn safe, transportation can't be beat, and you never feel alone - you're just surrounded by 1000's of friends. I had someone to chat with in every line, and when I didn't, I was on my phone sending pics or updating social media, or just reading and planning.

This time, I'm hoping to stay at BCV and spend a day lounging at Stormalong Bay, hopefully with a drink in my hand! Aaaah, can't wait!

I was thinking of BCV as well. I read that Stormalong Bay was voted the best pool in Disneyworld. Have a great time!

 

[justtobeme2]

Just wanted to say me and my SO (me 50 him 43) will be there Sept 28th to oct 6 if anyone wants to join us for dinner. We are low key friendly simple people!

 

[nurse.darcy]

I am in a serious relationship but totally alone in Clearwater this weekend. I am enjoying myself more than you can imagine. It is noon and I am still in my pajamas. It was supposed to rain all weekend so I was planning on doing nothing, however, the sun is shining. . . think I may shower and head to the beach. Tony moves here next weekend so I can't wait to have him here.

 

[aVASTGrl]

My family thinks I'm crazy for wanting to do a solo trip...they think I'm going to be very lonely and I'm a little nervous. I usually do WDW with my sister, or with my sister and our parents, so I'm used to going sans children and don't think this will be much different. I'm REALLY looking forward to trying one of the tours, and really poking around the hidden corners of Epcot since my sister always rushes us through.

I do things by myself all the time...movies, meals, sightseeing in big cities so I don't know why I'm so nervous about this! If I do this, I'm hoping it will force me out of my shell a bit and actually make me more sociable!

I'd also like to take a day for Universal. Has anyone else done that solo? Is it as solo-friendly as WDW?