Originally posted by Shannon G
Miss Jasmine - I don't think that people are trying to say that it's easy to deal with an intoxicated person at all, or are meaning to be insensitive. I think the point being made is that if the wife was that concerned about his safety, she could have sought help in dealing with him. It is just hard to stomach the wife's argument when she says he had obviously had too much to drink and the security guard should have called for help on his radio rather than walking away momentarily to get help (because the man so obviously should not have been left alone) and yet she left him alone, and went back to their room at another resort, without notifying anyone that there was a problem. If it should have been so obvious to the security guard that he needed to be supervised for his own safety, why did the wife simply leave him alone at the GF, and return to the Poly., without notifying anyone at that time?
I don't think that people are really trying to blame the wife, just making the point that she did exactly what she is blaming others for doing.