Oh Emma, I can totally sympathise. I always fall for the nice guys who don't fall for me back, or the ones that do fall for me are decidely full on and strange

For example in the last month my best friend and I thought this is it, its real...no it wasn't, it was him all confused because i started seeing someone new and he got jealous, my feelings were genuine, he was just confused..again!!!
then we have the guy I started seeing for two weeks, wanted to be here every day, kept saying me you and the children as a package phrase and talked about disney weddings!!!!
so there you have it, you are not alone, I think the good ones have gone already or they were good ones who have so much emotional baggage now they have become damaged and can't commit. in fact me and some friends were discussing this and it would seem that lately it is men who are the emotional ones and in a tizzy
Try to stay positive but i agree, it is a minefield out there, i have decided to give up which means that he should be along soon

Oh on a funnier note, when I did start seeing someone, 3 guys including my best friend came out of the woodwork to tell me they had feelings for me. I say if I wasn't good enough for them single, then I am not good enough now, enough games and silliness!
Big hugs hun xxx