I don't mean to resurrect any bad feelings or anything but I follow just about every thread on this board, even though I don't reply to many, and I have to say the FOTL issue WAS getting out of hand - not because anyone was saying the wrong thing (IMHO) but because the same arguement was being reguritated time and time again without anything new being added.
Nobody should try to judge what a person is like purely through what has been written in a posting, it is VERY difficult to express oneself properly in a few short lines (Hell thats why smilies were invented!).
People read something slightly differently to how it was meant and then the bad-feeling just snowballs bigger and bigger!!!
Everyone should try to read between the lines a bit more and try to understand what the poster is trying to get across rather than think the worst!
It makes me cross to see you lot bickering when face to face you would probably be the best of friends! (Sorry, don't mean to patronising but if you stand back and re-read some of it you'll see what I mean

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Anyway - so how about having a Universal Debate Board where we can all rant and rave to our hearts content! Could be fun!