It really is a wonderful and informative site....all of the membership "loops" is really to protect it's members that is what makes it so much different than an open forum. You know what they say...to each his own
I joined Disneymooners on the first try, we only had a SM, and it only took a couple days. Its been a few months since but I dont remember jumping through any hoops just answering a few questions. I like both sites equally I just feel that the Disneymooner site is more personable because you really get to know all the girls and everything everyone is going through. If its something you really want I wouldnt give up on the first try appling because after all, it could be something as simple as an email error. Congrats to all getting married and honeymooning in Disney, I hope its magical for everyone.