As to your specific question, I believe that the entity which we usually refer to as God the Father (or the Creator, if you prefer) is infinite. Since God is infinite, God is male/female/neuter. God is everything. I do not have the gall to suppose that I can assign human personality traits to an infinite being. God is inifinitely merciful, infinitely just, infinitely good, infinitely resolute, infinitely unsure. God is the Ultimate Reality, the Ultimate Paradox, about which I can have no true 100% knowledge.
That is how I think about God. That is how I view God philosophically.
How I feel about God? I am a Christian. Specifically (and I know what's going to come after this) I am a Roman Catholic. Theologically I agree with, oh say 95% of the Church's teachings.
Politically I am a liberal, and so I disagree with some of the Church's temporal/political policies.
Regarding other religions, I am a pluralist. My religion is what is best for me, and I believe that it is absolutely true for my own existence. I recognize in most other religions the exact same fundamental principles as in my own. We differ chiefly in ritual practices and a few (usually less than a dozen) doctrinal/theological ideals. Ultimately all religions are concerned with moving the individual away from self and towards an Ultimate Reality (variously called God, Allah, Yahweh, Nirvana, Brahman, etc.) I can say that my beliefs are absolutely correct and still respect and recognize the validity of others' beliefs because it's a subjective universe, baby.
Bottom line, no one has an exclusive monopoly on Truth, and when you argue as though you do, you come out sounding very, very, very stupid. A hypothetical outside observer on our little world, looking down objectively at all our beliefs and superstitions would say that no one has any reasonable, rational, irrefutable evidence or logic to say that their religion or philosophy is right and someone elses is wrong.