I would think it would be difficult to go from a house with your own pool to a cramped hotel room!![]()
Reverse the Order..Onsite then Offsite
We stayed on-site for the 1st trip and spent a fortune but it was great! This time we are trying off site for many reasons but one of the main reasons is that my DH absolutely wants to rent a car and have some non-disney food. He did not think the food was very good and it was expensive (we were on the dining plan but still the cost of lots of expensive food was build into the package). In my opinion, if you are going to have to drive then you might as well stay off site (see I liked the bus service but AKL did not share with others). I am going to miss the morning EMH we got sooo much done but I am NOT going to miss standing in the LONG bus line with two sleeping kids after fireworks ( I thought this was the low point of our last vacation). I think the perfect plan for my family is to stay at a MK resort for a few days (timed to take advantage of Morning EMH) and emerse yourself in Disney and then escape to a nice relaxing villa/townhome with more parks and fun after everyone recovers from the first few days. We also have the grandparents going with us this time and would need at least two rooms which is very pricey on-site. I am still considering adding a few nights on site to our off site vacation next year... the best of both worlds.
You can do lots of little things to make off site more Disney like... Walgreens and others always have lots of disney knick knacks to sneak away in a suitcase.. I agree that you make the magic (some folks even don't like Disney, so it is definately in your attitude not your location).