IKWYM. Our first cruise (Disney and ever) was in April 2011 to the MR after DH had been away from us for 7 months. DH had been adamant that he never wanted to cruise since the beginning of our relationship, but I was the one at home with 4 kids (including moody 13yo starting high school and DD with physical disabilities) and no support for 7 months plus caring for my mum who was unwell. So therefore I got to book our reunion holiday. We also went to DL & Death Valley, but it was the cruise that surprised us most. We never imagined that we would love cruising so much. It was the best of everything together, alone or couple. And all the kids loved it too.
We came home "converted" and tell everybody how it is the best thing for families.
DCL should pay me commission as 2 families have booked b/c of my feedback and
RCCL & Carnival should too as some people have booked cruises with them b/c of my love of cruising!! (Even though I've never sailed with them!!)
I think it's really great that you're able to swing this family together time. It's so important and you never regret it. We didn't start traveling with our kids til our youngest was 5 (is now nearly 10) and our only regret is that we didn't start sooner.
And the conversation about the people on the ship... my DH & I had that same conversation as we sat on the deck one day and watched people. Parents at my kids schools are the same too, just adult evolutions of HS
I have photos of our passports in my gmail account and on my phone (which is pass-protected).