matcoland, please don't feel that I'm singling you out - I'm just using your post because you covered so much ground.
Originally posted by matcoland
I am not a cheap person....and after blowing $4K on a WDW trip another $100 in tips over 10 days won't kill me, but it's not like they really do anything for the tip.
You're right, another $100 after paying $4K won't kill you.

And they "really do" perform a service for the tip - they carry your bags. It's that simple. If you don't want to tip, or don't feel comfortable doing so, or it makes you feel nickel and dimed, carry your own bags. I assure you, the bellhops won't knock you to the ground trying to wrench them out of your hands - a polite "no thank you" will get the job done.
When eating I can see tipping....but for all of these other things I feel like I am being nickle and dimed to death.
Where is the difference for you between a waitress and a bellhop? In both cases the compensation structure is the same - minimal hourly wage from the employer (often less than minimum wage) plus tips from customers who use their services.
Like the house keeping....why do I have to leave $2 a day for that exactly?
IMO, you don't. It's nice if you do (and I always try to remember that $5 makes next to no difference to me, but might put a smile on the housekeeper's face), but it's not required. Unlike waitresses, bellhops, and valet parkers, housekeepers are not a tipped position at WDW.
House keeping is part of the price I paid to stay there....the house keeper isn't doing any special to my room so what exactly am I tipping for? As my family says...you are tipping so they don't use your toothbrush to clean the toilet. So $2 a day for peace of mind. That's insane. I would rather they raise the price of the room $2 a night and pay the maid that way.
I agree. If you're only tipping to avoid something skanky happening to your belongings, that's the wrong reason to tip. I'd like to think that that's not a concern at Disney resorts anyway, but that's probably me being naive.