who is Big Poppa on Real Housewives of Atlanta????

[MAKmom]

Check out the Bravo site. Each Housewife has a blog. Kim has 930 responses to her Blog & the other wives only have 124 or under.

They are really being mean to Kim she has not posted since Oct.

 

[Loverly]

Am I the only one who noticed that Kim spelled cat K-A-T!

Her school teachers should be proud!

I like NeNe-she tells it like it is! Kim sitting in her convertable drinking wine and then driving off-real good role model there.


I nearly burst out laughing at the 29 -sure you are Kim! And she has an OLDER DD who is not shown on the show at all-BTW

 

[NYPDwife]

Maybe I'm confusing the names of some of these women since I only saw the one episode, but wasn't NeNe the one in the back of a limo, drunk, was singing that mean song about Kim not being able to sing (even if it is true?)

And Kim found out about it from one of the other women? (Who I'm sure was told by one of the show's producers or P.A.s to cause trouble.)

How is singing about someone behind their back being loyal & saying it to your face? Even since it's true, Kim can't sing & her boyfriend did it because he's well connected. singing in the back of a limo is not being loyal.

By then, it seems, Nene & Kim weren't even friends anymore because of Kim's kissing up to Sheree. And Lisa even said that Nene was right because whatever Nene told everyone (or sang to everyone) about Kim, Nene's already said it to Kim.

 

[dreamergirl78]

I watch this trash too! And I LOVE it! I am a reality TV addict. I admit it. It drives my husband nuts, but I just can't help myself!!

I too was wondering about Kim's Big Poppa. I would think that if money was not an option, she would be in a bigger "blingier" house. She seems pretty delusional.

 

[1rockinmamato2]

That's an outstanding point !

I can admire what Deshawn is trying to do, but she really turned me off with the whole estate manager thing. Having to hire someone to essentially run her house ? Ah, sweetie, you have two kids and a husband who pulls in some sick money ! Get over yourself !

Oh and did you see the episode where she was complaining about her hubby being away so much? And it's like being a single mom? As she was saying this, she was standing there while the chef cooked breakfast for the boys. And we all know she has a full staff of people to take care of her house, DO HER HAIR, and cook for her kids.

I think her "single mom" comment was a slap in the face to all of the real single moms out there that do everything themselves.

 

[1rockinmamato2]

Kim sitting in her convertable drinking wine and then driving off-real good role model there.

DH and I saw that and we were like, WTH??? Not sure about the laws in Georgia, but here, your **** would be arrested for having an "open container" in a vehicle.

And am I the only one that looks at Kim and thinks she probably smells like a mixture of alcohol and stale cigarette smoke that she's tried to cover up by dousing herself with an entire bottle of perfume?

 

[agnes!]

I like NeNe-she tells it like it is! Kim sitting in her convertable drinking wine and then driving off-real good role model there.


I nearly burst out laughing at the 29 -sure you are Kim! And she has an OLDER DD who is not shown on the show at all-BTW

Really?
agnes!

 

[Desnik]

No you are not the only one who thinks that!!

I had no idea she has an older DD too! How old is that DD? I knew she wasn't 29. When I heard her say that I was cracking up. DH walked in while I was watching it and I asked him how old he thought she was and he said 40! I told him she says she's 29, he said yeah right!

 

[NYPDwife]

Oh and did you see the episode where she was complaining about her hubby being away so much? And it's like being a single mom? As she was saying this, she was standing there while the chef cooked breakfast for the boys. And we all know she has a full staff of people to take care of her house, DO HER HAIR, and cook for her kids.

I think her "single mom" comment was a slap in the face to all of the real single moms out there that do everything themselves.

I can't understand what's so hard about making some breakfast and fixing a bed. Her husband is getting up in his years. She should think about just keeping the maid (it must be alot to maintain a house like that) and starting to cook her own meals and run her own household before hubby retires and all that money's not coming in anymore.

 

[c4a]

An interesting link (buzz sugar)that says the guys initials are Q.J., and is not a music exec, is married, and he hangs out with the "richies" in Atlanta.
linkThe source was the stylist. Also, states she has more than 1 "Big Poppa"!!!

I *** the cuss words.

Buzz Sugar Article:
BIG POPPA REVEALED!:More Details On “ATL Housewife” Kim’s “Big Poppa”
We’ve learned some interesting new details about “The Real Housewives Of Atlanta” co-star Kim Zolciak’s “Big Poppa.” She’s been keeping who her mystery sugar daddy a secret on the show. But one of the stylists used by the ladies for the show (yes, this “reality show” has stylists) dishes to TheYBF.com that Big Poppa isn’t the type of man we’re thinking he is. He is a celebrity like Kim said, but he’s not in the entertainment business. He’s a married celebrity in the business world and is on par to become a billionaire soon. Oh, and she has more than 1 Big Poppa. Foolery!

Said stylist who has spent numerous hours with Kim and Big Poppa dishes this: Big Poppa is a middle eastern guy (it is believed he is from Turkey). He hangs with tons of the celebs in ATL. Jeezy, TI, Dallas Austin, just to name a few. He’s in his mid-50’s. His house was featured in the Fat Joe and Nelly video “Get it Poppin. And this dude has been giving Kim hundreds of thousands of dollars…just because. I told y’all the Jump Off profession was somethin’ serious in the ‘08.

And here’s another juicy tidbit: We’re told this mystery Big Poppa can actually be seen on an upcoming episode, but of course, he will not be revealed as such. He will appear on an the episode where Kim meets with Dallas Austin about her music career. Scandal!

I’m told he’s a really cool guy, but the fact that he’s MARRIED with a family prevents said stylist from revealing his full name to me. Apparently he could lose a lot if this situation is fully revealed. I’m also told Kim has not 1, but 2 Big Poppas! But there is one in particular who is her main sugar daddy, and that’s the one we need to find out about. A few names have been tossed around on other sites, but we’re going to hold off on mentioning those until we uncover the whole shebang. “Lose a lot” my #*@. Looks like somebody should have thought of that before they started tricking to Kim. Despite popular belief…it IS tricking even when you got it.

Source: YBF: http://theybf.com/index.php/2008/10/23/more-details-on-atl-housewife-kim..

Maybe, she said "he's not black" because she knew people were linking her with Quincy Jones?

 

[nannerbadnanner]

Really?
agnes!

I think Kim only has the two daughters. Sheree has an older daughter who is not being shown on the show. Lisa also has older children by Keith Sweat. He has custody and would not allow them to appear on the show.

 

[John Smith1]

rumor has it it's Lee Najjar:

Neyo, Lee and wife Kim

 

[agnes!]

I know this is kind of off-topic, but I had no idea that Lisa filed for Chapter 7 bankruptcy in 2007.

Guess she's made a full financial recovery since then?...

agnes!

 

[Loverly]

http://sandrarose.com/2008/10/13/keith-sweat-speaks-out-on-rumors/

Yep! And her EX has full custody of the older sons

 

[JamieW]

http://sandrarose.com/2008/10/13/keith-sweat-speaks-out-on-rumors/

Yep! And her EX has full custody of the older sons

Well, here is Lisa's side of the story.

http://www.essence.com/news_enterta...lfive?xid=111108-ENews-Tuesday-AtlWomenHeader


That's right: Lisa Wu Hartwell has become known as the Quiet One of the Atlanta "Real Housewives" clan. But don't let her professional demeanor fool you. The petite, raven-haired beauty has somehow managed to steer clear of any drama this season, but even sophisticated ladies have their boiling point. ESSENCE.COM had some real talk with Lisa about her costars, the truth about her relationship with singer Keith Sweat, and her one wish for next season's show.

ESSENCE.COM: Throughout this season you've been pretty even tempered and even joked that you were "boring." What element of surprise can we expect for the reunion show?
LISA WU HARTWELL: Super drama! Let's just say, Kim [Zolciak] pushed the wrong and the last button, which takes me there. Normally, I conduct myself professionally and I prefer to turn the other cheek, but you can't allow people to continue to play with you because they'll think they can do that all day, every day. So I'd say that people will be surprised because I was surprised and somewhat embarrassed myself, but I'm human and you have to let people know that they can't just say whatever they want to you. I've been extremely diplomatic and there are horrible things I could have said but I have chosen not to and still do. When you come after my integrity or my family, then you're going to see a different person. I think that I know all of the women-NeNe, Sheree, Deshawn, and Kim-better now and I will deal with them differently next season. I was naïve coming in and I've learned some people just have ill intentions, so I will deal with each individual accordingly. But people need to know that yes, I'm a businesswoman but I'm also a sparring woman.

ESSENCE.COM: (Laughs) The Wu ain't nothing to mess with! Wait a minute, you spar?
HARTWELL: Yes, I have a brown belt, one belt away from a black belt in Kajukenbo. That's a combination of Karate, Judo, Kimbo, Chinese boxing and Kung Fu. My dad is Chinese and he made me, my brother and sister go to classes ever since we were kids. We used to be so embarrassed. We even had competitions and I have trophies. I practice pretty regularly, especially when I go home my brother will invite me to spar and we go and take a class and get to work. Actually my kids Jordan and Justin were taking it, but Justin stopped but is starting to become interested in martial arts again.

ESSENCE.COM: (Laughs) Somehow it's always the one you'd least expect that will knuckle up. Seriously, it is a shock to learn that you can kick butt because there have been rumors that you were allegedly in an abusive marriage with your ex-husband and New Jack Swing artist Keith Sweat. Is that true?
HARTWELL: I'll just say it was a very tumultuous relationship. I was very young and impressionable-20-when I married him. So it was a difficult marriage but it made me stronger and wiser. When you're young and impressionable, you have to know who you are and love yourself, so you don't accept anything less than love and respect. I don't believe that I didn't love myself, but I lacked confidence. Once you have confidence and your own identity, no one can tell you who you are. When you're in love, you take more than you normally would and it doesn't have to be physical or verbal. When you're independent and know who you are, that isn't ever a problem. A lot of people tolerate relationships that aren't necessarily good for them because they are dependent upon their partner. It's so important for every woman to have independence.

ESSENCE.COM: Everyone should know thy self. The blogosphere has criticized you and accused you of not being a good mom because you don't have custody of your kids. How does that make you feel?
HARTWELL: Throughout the custody case, everyone who testified said I was a great mother and that I even treated his daughters like my own. I was a housewife and mother in every sense of those words. Until this day I still can't believe I lost custody because they were convinced that because I was an aspiring actress and Keith [Sweat] was more stable and settled in his career than I was. So because I'm a working mother that means I'm a bad parent? I still don't get it. It was an unfortunate ruling that was handed to me. It was devastating and if it can happen to me it can happen to Mary Poppins, because there was no [behavioral] misconduct on my part. I've never done drugs, I don't party and I helped raise his kids. How do you take my kids when I'm raising yours? I believe quality is more than quantity. Three days out of the week, I am at my sons' football practice. I'm the only one they see because I'm hands-on with them. Was I done wrong? Absolutely. Do I think justice wasn't served? Absolutely. I'm hopeful that one day soon that will change.

ESSENCE.COM: So will we see you with all of your children for the second installment of "Real Housewives"?
HARTWELL: My wish is that the circumstances will be different with the children. I don't think the children were shown in a negative light as their father thought they would be. None of the kids looked crazy on the show. Right now, that's my only wish. I want people to get the whole picture of my family.

 

[Traveliz]

Oh and did you see the episode where she was complaining about her hubby being away so much? And it's like being a single mom? As she was saying this, she was standing there while the chef cooked breakfast for the boys. And we all know she has a full staff of people to take care of her house, DO HER HAIR, and cook for her kids.

I think her "single mom" comment was a slap in the face to all of the real single moms out there that do everything themselves.

I agree-- I have never been a single mom -- only occasionally had the week my husband was away on business but when I heard her say that, I couldn't believe it. I even told my husband about how ridiculous she sounded!

Liz

 

[5disneynuts5]

I agree that Kym must have other ah-em "talents" Bravo cant' show to us.

lol

 

[agnes!]

I couldn't care less who her Big Poppa is actually...

I do think it's odd that Lisa is acting all diplomatic and "above it all" now. Isn't *she* the one who told Kim about NeNe's limo song?

agnes!

 

[NYPDwife]

I couldn't care less who her Big Poppa is actually...

I do think it's odd that Lisa is acting all diplomatic and "above it all" now. Isn't *she* the one who told Kim about NeNe's limo song?

agnes!

Did they show her telling Kim about it or did she tell Sheree who blew it up?

 

[mbw12]

Did they show her telling Kim about it or did she tell Sheree who blew it up?

Bingo.....if you look at the previews for next weeks reality show. Lisa admits to telling Sheree.....but looks like Sheree took it and ran to Kim...and I am sure made it worse.