I have an Incredible!
I had a motorola droid for a month, and then got the Incredible. I'll list what I like and don't like on the incredible phone...
Like:
Favorite people I call or text (nice, without having to go into my address book)
I like the big clock on the front
Lightweight and smaller than droid
Speed of the internet, browsing, downloading things
Camera is better
Dislike:
Battery life
Signal bars (not sure if its related to signal strength... there's a big controversy over that right now)
In the sun, its hard to see the screen when you have it set on low
Power button (don't like the location)
volume button (don't like the location)
The back button seems like its in the wrong place (compared to the droid)
Phone sound isn't as clear as droid
If anyone has questions... ask away