We got one today. I hadn't read this thread yet, but when we got one my DW told me about it and how there is this thread with a number of people up set with Disney because they haven't received one and think Disney's explanation of the fact that one of their marketing companies is randomly doing mailings from their lists, was a cop out.
I didn't believe her, surely people weren't upset because they didn't receive a marketing piece aka junk mail. But she was right. Come on this is a reason to get upset? Let it go, whatever Disney chooses to give away to past cruisers is a perk that is nice but not required. And most mailings from any marketing angle have various ways of pulling out the information.
Sure we received the coconut, but we didn't receive a music CD, so what. I'm thrilled Disney does these cool extra things and happy for those how have gotten them. It certainly isn't worth campaign to let them know we're not happy when we all don't get something in the mail.
Keep in mind that with all of the past cruisers, it can get very costly and difficult to mail every thing to everybody. However, if by mailing some treats out once in a while to whatever list they choose causes them more head aches in the form of phone calls, letters and e-mails, it will probably be easier for them to stop all together. Just a thought.