. They met one couple where the husband was younger than the wife and I just couldn't figure out how they got around that "law" 


I'm 5'1" and I rarely come across anyone shorter than me, male or female but I can't imagine that it would deter me from the right person. Who cares about height if someone makes you happy? Wear those heels sista!!!
I declined, and said that the most wonderful man I knew was sitting across the table from me and it didn't matter how tall or short or thin or fat or anything he was because he was perfect. He still is. We have been together for 20 years and while I admit when we first started dating it bothered me a little, I was 15 and stupid and quickly realized it didn't matter and I am so glad I did cause he truly turend out to be the very best husband. 
I can take him in my dress boots with 3 or 4 inch heels. I'm 5'4" and he's 5'6". He does not love the boots and high heels.I catered to his whims and wore flats for our wedding.