They kind of left us alone. They could probably tell. I think the worst thing was we got straws thrown when we asked for straws. It might be intense if a child doesn't understand why, if they are very observant to others behaviors. We didn't engage, it's not really our thing, well at least for me and DH. We didn't think the food was all that great, or the experience. Not that it was bad, just thought it pricey for the food/experience. The kids thought things were funny and were watching things going on.