It is definitely loud. We stayed at VWL last year and ate their within an hour of arriving at the resort. After a long day of flying and riding on the DME, we were ready for some food. The food was pretty good, but MIL, FIL, BIL and SIL were pretty tired, so I don't think they cared for the noise and activity much. There was a young boy at the table next to us who was embarrassed to tears. The waiter felt horrible, but everything he did to try to make it up to the boy just made things worse. The manager came over and tried to help, but nothing seemed to work. We felt terrible for everyone involved.
I don't mean to sound negative (I actually enjoyed the meal and entertainment), but if you don't like it loud and crazy, you may want to try Artist Point.