My wife and I have had moto droids since december. I get a little more than 2 days life on normal days - an hour or two of talking, a couple dozen texts, half hour internet access each day. My wife takes pride in pushing hers. She's gotten almost 4 days before. I bought an extra battery but really have never needed it. The ability to buy a battery was what pushed me to go ahead and buy the droid and quit waiting on the iphone for verizon. I've spent several days in the parks where I was using it heavily and it still lasted all day. Every few weeks I let the running battery drain all the way down then swap the batteries out. the onscreen keyboard is very usable and the slide out keyboard is great.
previous post is correct - you'll want to download advanced task killer. (free)
I used to use that one but you might find a better one. I m using one that is called. Advanced Task Manager Free by Arron la (symbol is a blue phone inside a blue cog). The main difference so far is it loads fast, and the amount of information is KILLER. I found that the old one was giving me general info, but not sometimes the programs that were running. That is why I got the new Task Manger program. I know exactly what's on my system and its easy to use.
handcent is a better text messaging client than the built in one. (free)
Couldn't agree more. Not to mention the devs website has got easy instructions.
I haven't found a good podcast app yet. there are a couple but I had issues with all of them. so I download on my PC to iTunes then copy to the phone.
there is a "widget" you can put on your home screen to turn off bluetooth, wifi, gps, sync. I leave bluetooth and wifi off if I'm not using it. One click on/off.
You can customize so much its almost rediculous. My wife hated her "droid" phone, but after a few days... I have created a monster!