Illuminations is the only fireworks show I actually stay to watch multiple times a trip anymore because it's spectacular, esp if you know what the story is behind it that it's portraying.
Wishes is next
And then I really want to see Rivers of Light next trip.
Star Wars isn't a favorite thing of mine but I'd go see the show.
Fantasmic is just bland and I wouldn't go see that, I know I don't ever.
The night of your Aloha show, if you get a chance, see the Electrical Water Pageant on the 7 Seas Lagoon since you'll be at the Poly. It's a classic and a fave.