Are you looking for great dining? Character interaction? Disney magic?
OK. For great dining I would say California Grill for dinner - get a later ADR time so that you can catch WISHES. Pure magic.
For characters I would say you can't go wrong with Pooh and the Gang at Crystal Palace. Dinner is great there and breakfast is good, too. Liberty Tree Tavern is great for some classic characters - Minnie, Chip, Dale, Goofy and Pluto. Donald's Breakfastosaurus at AK with Donald, Goofy, Pluto and Mickey - plus if you get an early ADR (8am) on a NON EMH morning, you'll get to ride EE before the massive crowds head over there!
I also would recommend the following as they're our favorites and must-do's for almost every trip. And our 3 first timers last summer LOVED them all!
1. Boma
2. 'Ohana
3. Kona Cafe
4. Chef Mickey's breakfast
5. Le Cellier
Have fun planning!!!