It was a mixture.... A friend and I went to a bar for a drink, with people she knew from a chat room. He was there, was introduced to him and told him a screen name I hardly used. A week later, I was in the chat room under another name and im'd him, in chit chatting with him, he said he was looking for this person with xx name, which was the name I had given him, I told him I was that person, long story short, we've been together 10 1/2 yrs, married for 3 1/2. So the answer would be, bar/friend/chat room.