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OK a little pre-trip info on the WHY...
Back in November 2008 Disney had just started advertising the 4/3 deal which a bunch of people took advantage of...but I didn't get to.
I had a week all planned at the POP the week of MLK day in Feb. The kids would only miss 2 days of school...would have been perfect. We had some extra Money from working at a local Cornfield Maize. (Which on a side note if you have a corn maze near your house be sure to visit it...they are so much fun.) Was ready to hit the button and spring it on the kids at Christmas.
BUT November 6th Mel finds her dad in the floor at his house...totally out of it and...well...very messy...next stop our local ER. Followed by 2 weeks in the Hospital. He had been fine earlier in the week Mel even took him to vote on the 4th.
After many test and "what-not" for Strokes...they find a Tumor on his petuitary gland...also this thing is wrapped around his carodid artery. They release him to a short term skill care center...where he's pretty comfortable...but the man's short term memory is shot...and he has episodes of "sundowners".
They don't think this tumor is cancerous...but is has allot of effect on his mind, memory and reasoning. They recommend putting him in a nursing home for the level of care he requires. And there's one 2 miles from our house which...without much research...Mel and SIL decide to put him in.
WRONG...I get a call that afternoon they transport him to the Nursing home from a very frantic and upset Mel...saying she can't leave him there. I calm her down and we talk about it when I get home...we all go visit him.
I'm certain they are very good to those people there...but this was a human dumping ground. So our family votes and we decide to bring "Bampy" home with us. Dec. 8, 2008 we change from a family of 4 plus a dog to a family of 5 with a dog and a 13 year old Poodle. (Poodles are not dogs...they are cats disquised as dogs.)
Needless to say I never "pushed the button"...the kids never knew...so they are not disappointed.
Mel spends the next 6 months taking care of a 70 year old toddler. This man has more ailments than you can shake a stick at...a basic walking case study in poor health. The kids are so good with this intrusion in their house...and it's a big adjustment for us all.
We spent allot more time at home. We get one day off (more like 8 hours) most Saturdays when SIL makes herself available to "baby-sit." Typically we would see a movie then run errands and get groceries. Outside of taking the kids to school and back Mel is stuck at our house...She's a trooper.
In April FIL has a brain scan and their is no change in his tumor...his memory patch seems to help his clairity...and things are going as well as can be expected...given the situation. FIL wants to pursue a knee replacement.
After many doctors visits to get approval...he gets it...again I'm like
Once it is scheduled (June 10) I start planning...as I knew FIL would be in rehab for several months...and this may be our only shot at some family time for sometime to come.
First I plan a quick trip to Myrtle Beach, SC the week after his surgery. This is to help Mel relax and forget about the last 6 Months. (and we had a blast!
)
Second I plan this trip...
I must have spent 100 hours trying this and that...researching on the DIS Boards...making "spreadsheets form hades"...Oh yes!... I'm a spreadsheet guy!
Finally I get this trip planned out...11 Nights at the CSR...7 Day Tickets...Quick Service Dining...with the Summer Rooms Deal they were running it wasn't that much more than what I had planned for Febuary...at the POP.
So some night in Mid-May while the kids were in bed and I was playing the Wishes soundtrack...I PUSHED THE BUTTON! My wife was like "you did what!?!" I pushed the button!!!
We don't tell the kids until we are packing for our Myrtle Beach trip.
There was much excitment...poor Tiny...he started to cry.
Thanks for enduring the long winded "why" to our Family Celebration!
BTW
FIL is doing well and rehabbing nicely...though he took a step back mentally from the extra pain meds.
Next installment "EAST BOUND & DOWN" -Day 1 Part 1
Back in November 2008 Disney had just started advertising the 4/3 deal which a bunch of people took advantage of...but I didn't get to.
I had a week all planned at the POP the week of MLK day in Feb. The kids would only miss 2 days of school...would have been perfect. We had some extra Money from working at a local Cornfield Maize. (Which on a side note if you have a corn maze near your house be sure to visit it...they are so much fun.) Was ready to hit the button and spring it on the kids at Christmas.
BUT November 6th Mel finds her dad in the floor at his house...totally out of it and...well...very messy...next stop our local ER. Followed by 2 weeks in the Hospital. He had been fine earlier in the week Mel even took him to vote on the 4th.
After many test and "what-not" for Strokes...they find a Tumor on his petuitary gland...also this thing is wrapped around his carodid artery. They release him to a short term skill care center...where he's pretty comfortable...but the man's short term memory is shot...and he has episodes of "sundowners".
They don't think this tumor is cancerous...but is has allot of effect on his mind, memory and reasoning. They recommend putting him in a nursing home for the level of care he requires. And there's one 2 miles from our house which...without much research...Mel and SIL decide to put him in.
WRONG...I get a call that afternoon they transport him to the Nursing home from a very frantic and upset Mel...saying she can't leave him there. I calm her down and we talk about it when I get home...we all go visit him.

I'm certain they are very good to those people there...but this was a human dumping ground. So our family votes and we decide to bring "Bampy" home with us. Dec. 8, 2008 we change from a family of 4 plus a dog to a family of 5 with a dog and a 13 year old Poodle. (Poodles are not dogs...they are cats disquised as dogs.)
Needless to say I never "pushed the button"...the kids never knew...so they are not disappointed.
Mel spends the next 6 months taking care of a 70 year old toddler. This man has more ailments than you can shake a stick at...a basic walking case study in poor health. The kids are so good with this intrusion in their house...and it's a big adjustment for us all.
We spent allot more time at home. We get one day off (more like 8 hours) most Saturdays when SIL makes herself available to "baby-sit." Typically we would see a movie then run errands and get groceries. Outside of taking the kids to school and back Mel is stuck at our house...She's a trooper.

In April FIL has a brain scan and their is no change in his tumor...his memory patch seems to help his clairity...and things are going as well as can be expected...given the situation. FIL wants to pursue a knee replacement.


First I plan a quick trip to Myrtle Beach, SC the week after his surgery. This is to help Mel relax and forget about the last 6 Months. (and we had a blast!

Second I plan this trip...
I must have spent 100 hours trying this and that...researching on the DIS Boards...making "spreadsheets form hades"...Oh yes!... I'm a spreadsheet guy!
Finally I get this trip planned out...11 Nights at the CSR...7 Day Tickets...Quick Service Dining...with the Summer Rooms Deal they were running it wasn't that much more than what I had planned for Febuary...at the POP.

So some night in Mid-May while the kids were in bed and I was playing the Wishes soundtrack...I PUSHED THE BUTTON! My wife was like "you did what!?!" I pushed the button!!!

There was much excitment...poor Tiny...he started to cry.

Thanks for enduring the long winded "why" to our Family Celebration!
BTW
FIL is doing well and rehabbing nicely...though he took a step back mentally from the extra pain meds.
Next installment "EAST BOUND & DOWN" -Day 1 Part 1