In general, you may present the card whenever you like.
If I am asked specifically before ordering if I have a TIW membership or if I have a "discount" I will say I do.
If I am asked if I am on a dining plan, I say "no."
If I am not asked, I don't tell.
JUst wondering if you have experienced better/worse service? I thought we had to say that we were on the plan, I guess in Nov/Dec. I might do as you do! Thanks.
Do we still get free valet parking if we dine at a resort restaurant?
Yes, you do.
I do not see any difference in service. Bad service has occurred a few times but I don't think it has anything to do with having TIW or not having TIW. I'll put the membership card in with the credit card after I take a look at the bill to make sure it's right.
You need to tell the server if you are on the prepaid Disney dining plan with the credits on your key card. It doesn't mean TIW...TIW isn't a dining plan. Dining plan checks are rung up differently from the start of the meal, so I don't suggest that anyone say they're not on a dining plan when they are. Servers or hosts should always ask if you are on the Disney Dining Plan.
We've had the TIW card for many years, going back to when it was the DDE. I have never been asked about it at the beginning of the meal. They do always ask if you're on "any dining plans" but since TIW is not a dining plan, we always say no.
I wait until the bill is placed on the table, then put my TIW card and credit card or room key in the folio at the same time. Never had a complaint or problem doing that way.
I assume they ask if you are on a dining plan so they can make sure to "help" you order "correctly" for your plan so you won't be unpleasantly surprised when you receive your bill. Since that's not an issue with TIW (it applies to anything and everything you order) there is really no reason for them to know you have it in advance.
JUst wondering if you have experienced better/worse service? I thought we had to say that we were on the plan, I guess in Nov/Dec. I might do as you do! Thanks.