Lorelai said:
While both books come together to make the whole bible for Christians, the New Testament is filled with the word of Jesus, who did put a very different spin on things from the Old Testament. The eye for an eye vs. turn the other cheek is just a small window.
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While, for Catholics, the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke & John, and their first hand accounts of Christ, are the defining principles of the Catholic faith.
I hope that helps. I realize it's a mouthful....but most things about the differences between people of faith are.
I have always thought it was VERY important to know completely exactly what one is worshipping and praying toward. No matter how much nicer the New Testament's ideas are (and, btw, some of the ideas therein are not very nice ideas at all-- but most priests and preachers I've seen like to ... skip... those parts), if one believes in The Bible one MUST accept the Old Testament, and in doing so accept all the slaughter of babies and children by the omnipotent "God of Abraham, " often as revenge, as what really happened, and accept that these slaughters were committed/caused by "God" for the reasons given in the Bible (e.g., slaughtered for the actions of their greatgreatgreat [insert about 15-20 more greats] grandparents, in the case of the Amalekites).
As I drove through Alabama late one night years ago, I heard one AM radio preacher (deepwoods Baptist or maybe hard-edged Pentecostal, I think) proclaim the following (paraphrasing): "the God of Abraham ain't some hippy nambypamby 'God of Peace and Love'... he's a Jealous God of Vengeance and he demands your obedience and respect or you'll BURN IN HELL FOR ALL ETERNITY!" And when I heard that, I realized he was the only "Christian" I had ever met or heard up to that time who truly believed in the Bible-- ALL OF IT -- as to what it said about "God." He wasn't skipping any part of it, he was accepting every single word, as the unerring word of his "God" (it's easy for most Christians to believe in the peaceful teachings of "Jesus"-- he didn't slaughter anyone in the Bible-- well, except in the future sense of Revelations) . And I realized that ANYONE who claimed to be a Christian had to either pretty much accept this Alabama brimstone preacher's arguments, or else ignore large parts of the Bible, thus defeating any ability to proclaim it as the complete word of "God."
Everyone of course has the right to believe in whatever they want. All I ask of people is that if they are going to claim to be Christian, don't cherrypick -- read the whole book and accept it all, and know exactly what you are accepting about the "God" you worship, if you want to claim to be Christian.
Personally, much like Paine, I find much of it to be more descriptive of the actions of what I would call a demon rather than a god.
If one is just looking for a feelgood message about life to help with day-to-day living, I would suggest going with the Jefferson Bible, which is the story of "Jesus" and his system of morality that Jefferson made by cutting out the religious dogma and the supernatural elements (well, most of them anyway, he still left in a few Heaven and Heck bits) from the Gospels.