Another decision has been made. I am going alone to spend the time with my mom. Just the two of us (and her husband)
I am leaving all 3 boys with my husband. I am sure he will do some fun things with them.
My mom called and woke me up this morning at the crack of dawn to tell me not to worry about food, she'll pay for my meals. All I need to do is get down there.

LOL I'm bringing food money anyways. She's crazy.
All in all I am very excited about my mom/daughter only trip. this is going to be GREAT!!
If things work out for us financially next year, we'll be booking a trip next year during the Christmas season for all of us, so the boys will get their trip too
Thank you all again for your decisions on what you would do in this situation. For those that lost their mothers recently, I am sorry. You are what changed my mind about going. I really do need this one on one time with her. Just the two of us.

The pictures and memories will last me a lifetime.