Hi jz -
First, I recommend you join the official DECEMBER 2010 solo trip thread in this same DisBoards section (I will bump it so you can see it towards the top) - there are a bunch of us adult single/solo travelers going around that same time and we're working on scheduling various meets, ADRs, etc.
Second, in general, rides I would suggest are:
IF YOU LIKE ROLLERCOASTERS
Magic Kingdom
- Space Mountain
- Big Thunder Mountain Railroad
- Splash Mountain
Epcot
- Test Track
Animal Kingdom
- Expedition Everest
- Dinosaur
Hollywood Studios
- Rock n Roller Coaster
- Tower of Terror
- Star Tours (except the ride is being refurbished until 2011)
IF YOU LIKE 'EXPERIENCES'
Magic Kingdom
- Philharmagic
- Train ride around the park
- Tomorrowland Transit Authority
- Space Ranger Spin
- Haunted Mansion
- Hall of Presidents
Epcot
- Spaceship Earth
- Sourin'
- Living Seas
- Captain Neo (replaces Honey I Shrunk the Audience)
- ANY of the World Showcase movies or restaurants
- Illuminations
Hollywood Studios
- Motors Stunt Show
- Indiana Jones
- Great Movie Ride
- Toy Story Mania
- Animation Walkthrough
Animal Kingdom
- Kilimanjaro Safari
- Festival of the Lion King
- Jungle Trek
- Forest Trail
In general, my favorite restaurants are:
Magic Kingdom
- Liberty Tree Tavern
Epcot
- Les Cellier
- Rose & Crown
Hollywood Studios
- Brown Derby
Animal Kingdom
- Yak & Yeti
- Rainforest Cafe
Downtown Disney
- T-Rex
For crowd levels and suggested parks each day of your trip, I recommend the trip advisor service through allears.net - they list up to about 30 days in advance (unless you want to pay to see the whole year). Since you ARE going during Pop Warner, I recommend to STAY AWAY from any of the All Star resorts and maybe even Port Orleans (both) as that is the spill over moderate for the groups. I have heard nightmare stories but fortunately these kids are not in the parks except for some evenings and weekends, and as long as you avoid any packs of cheerleaders (they're not hard to spot) it shouldn't be a big deal.
You will never see it all in 4 days. I am excited for you and your first trip! You are going during a good time. I also highly suggest taking advanage of at least ONE Very Merry Christmas Party while you are there.
There's lots more I could say but this should at least get you started.
