what would u do???

[ukstitch]

OMG just found out that she has been awarded our local paper heo in the community award !! Am I seriously missing something here I seriously am angry now what a joke !!

I've known at least a couple of people over the past few years who everybody believes to be a perfect angel, yet I can clearly see their not and am left wondering how on earth everybody else can be so blind...

Just ignore it and carry on - hopefully they'll get bored sooner or later and move on

 

[KatieG73]

I don't post a lot but had to respond to this - Buzz I've just been reading your post about your little boy and the latest worry around his health and I cannot believe that you are being put though this added stress by someone you supported when they needed it most.

I am so angry for you and cannot imagine how much it hurts - I only hope by now that all is resolved on that front and you are not having to deal with it in addition to everything else.

The fact that this former friend is grieving is not an adequate excuse for what she is putting you through and the playground mafia have no excuse at all!!

I have to say that after reading your posts that I think you are an incredible mum and an inspiration - my thoughts are will you and your family.

Katie

 

[buzz for boys]

Thank you Katie,

I wish it had all died down im beginning to think it never will!! Im increasingly surprised by the amount of so called friends that I find out have stabbed me in the back. One friend text me and said she didnt agree with anything she was doing and she would never be part of it only for me to find out that by 9am the following morning she was repeating our whole conversation on facebook!!
I have let these peolp cry on my shoulder and ive that many knives sticking out of my back now im surprised im still alive
We were both part of a cancer support group but suddenly she attends every meeting so I cant go - yeah the same woman who told me theres worse things than cancer goes religiously to a cancer support group and then writes on her fb page that she has had the best time ever !!

I am just trying to not let it get to me and just carry on as normal but its hard as ive never felt to lonely in my whole life and just dont know who to trust anymore.

 

[KatieG73]

Am so sorry to hear that you are still having to deal with this - I really just can't understand people.

It takes a tremendous amount of strength to ignore this type of thing and if anyone can get through this I'm sure it's you. ( was bullied at work a couple of years ago and was so hurt by the people I thought of as friends siding with the bully - I later understood that they felt if they spoke up to support me they might end up being bullied too but it hurt a lot and I felt very alone....)

In my experience people who behave like this are very unhappy with their own lives -the fact that despite all the worries you have over your son's health you have a loving, happy family must really rile them - I know it's hard but try not to let them get to you...

Just wanted to send you some

Katie

 

[Chilly]

I am so sorry to hear this is still going on sending you and Cam a big

I feel sorry for the other Children, having Mum's that are such idiots must be hard for them.

Just remember Louise you can hold your head up high, you were there for her in her hour of need, she is the one who in time to come will feel very guilty indeed for what she has done.

Who an earth would make up a story like yours about your own child?

Sadly a woman has just gone to jail for doing just that and worse.