What would they change about YOU? (Inspired by the what would you change thread

[AprilShowers]

I'll go first:
DH would say that I spend too much time on the computer. And he wishes that I had a better memory.
We own our own business, and sometimes I can't remember customers when they come in. HE on the other hand, remembers everything about them! I just stand there looking like an idiot.

 

[blondewithbrains]

I wouldn't feel things quite so deeply

 

[Southern4sure]

Of course DH wouldn't have to change a thing about me.

 

[Disney Doll]

My stubborness

 

[auntpolly]

Oh I don't think I can say it here. Let's just say he has the same complaint Ray has about Deborah...

It's really our only disagreement. I am quite certain this is what he would say!

 

[NMAmy]

I'm pretty sure it would be that I wouldn't freak out about things. I have a tendency to get all upset, he talks me down, and then I'm able to look at things more rationally. He's very calm and easygoing so I guess we're well matched. It's one thing I'm working on changing in myself--I really don't know if it annoys him as much as it would annoy me if someone else were doing it.

 

[hiwaygal]

Of course DH wouldn't have to change a thing about me.

 

[Papa Deuce]

OK... LOL...since I started the other thread.... My wife would probably say that I rush to judgement on things way too fast. I like to make a choice and stick with it ASAP.

 

[Aurora63]

It would definetly be for me to spend less money! He swears I spend an average of $20 at Target every day, which is not true. But that would be what he would change. And maybe the Ray/Deborah problem too. Hey, maybe then he wouldn't care about the shopping!

 

[sue1013]

DH would be thrilled if I liked to cook. I never really liked it but now with just the two of us it just seems easier to go out or pick up something on the way home at night.

 

[kimmikayb]

Let's see....I would have better self esteem. I would be able to juggle my time better. I would be healthier. That's just a few...I have lots more.

 

[MoniqueU]

I would be able to multi task. People that can do that amaze me. IF I could do that I would appear to be so much more patient, organized and efficient. I can seriously only do one thing at a time and sometimes I can't even do that one thing well. I often try and talk on the phone and straighten up at the same time and I lose things.
The person that said spend less time on the computer is out of their ever living mind. I mean that in a nice way!!!! I would give up the tv, the phone, the cell phone, books, heating, cooling almost anything but don't take my computer!!!

 

[hucifer]

He hates how easily I let things bother me.
Also, I have a nasty temper at times.

 

[MouseWorshipin]

One of DH's flaws is that he doesn't recognize how perfect I am!


I think, if he were able to change one thing, he would make me like TV more. I can't stand to have it on. I watch 3 shows a week, and fast forward through the commercials. He likes to have it on and sit and watch, and I just can't.

Of course, it might be the spending of money. I dunno.

 

[liamsaunt]

He would magically prevent me from suffering from PMS every stinking month.

 

[beckmrk04]

It would probably be my incessant chatter- I try to keep him awake at night when I'm all wired and he's exhausted. But I just want to taaaalllk.

Poor guy.

 

[MamaLema]

When I say no to something, I won't change my mind about it - ever. It works good with kids. Not so good with DH.

 

[ChrisnSteph]

There are so many things, but here are the biggest:

My chronic running late to everything.

My indecisiveness about anything. I seriously can't come to a decision about even the silliest things!

My procrastination.

 

[andromedaslove]

That ones easy... my control issues. Actually, I don't know that you would even call them control issues. I just HAVE to know what is going on. Like right now, I suggested to the MIL and FIL that we go to WDW in Sept instead of January because of the free dining. They said they would talk about it and let me know. It's been 3 days and they still can't give me an answer. I am going freakin' nuts. I hate not KNOWING what is going on. Once I know I can plan accordingly. I do this with everything however, wether it's redecorating a room, buying a new house, going on vacation, I hate not knowing what is going on.

Dana

 

[pearlieq]

I think if you'd ask DH he's say that he wishes I wouldn't get so worked up about things/so critical. I think that's a fair point. Even I know it really doesn't matter that he ended a sentence with a preposition, but somehow it always slips out before I can even think that maybe I should keep it to myself.

I AM working on it. I swear. And I also have plenty to other things to offer