mickeyluv'r said:This has never been an issue for us. We've never dined at the above locations, but we have dined at WDW many times, at many locations. I'm curious as to why this would be an issue for you. At WDW you will be surrounded by other people ALL DAY long, so if that is an issue for your family, maybe WDW isn't the best vacation location for your family.
The only time we dined with another family was completely our doing, and it was great. We had an ADR for 5 at a very popular location, and two of our party cancelled. Instead of changing our ADR, we just found two people who were waiting, and asked them to join us. They probably would not have gotten a seat otherwise, and we had a great conversation with them! EVeryone was very happy. It was one of our best WDW meals ever!
mickeyluv'r said:This has never been an issue for us. We've never dined at the above locations, but we have dined at WDW many times, at many locations. I'm curious as to why this would be an issue for you. At WDW you will be surrounded by other people ALL DAY long, so if that is an issue for your family, maybe WDW isn't the best vacation location for your family.
The only time we dined with another family was completely our doing, and it was great. We had an ADR for 5 at a very popular location, and two of our party cancelled. Instead of changing our ADR, we just found two people who were waiting, and asked them to join us. They probably would not have gotten a seat otherwise, and we had a great conversation with them! EVeryone was very happy. It was one of our best WDW meals ever!
Lynne M said:Being around people in the theme parks all day is not the same as having to make small talk with a group of total strangers for an hour or more.
When I go out to a restaurant, it's to enjoy the company of the friends or family members I'm with. Having strangers at the table would mean I wouldn't get the chance to really talk to my dinner companions. There's just no way to have a normal conversation in a situation like that, and anyway, i'd feel rude excluding the other people at the table.
Then, there are always the horror stories you hear, like the friends who took a cruise and had to ask to be moved to another seating because the one of their assigned table-mates continually made obscene comments. I also remember reading on one of the WDW boards about a family that was stuck sharing a table at Biergarten with a man who verbally abused his wife through the entire meal.
No, thanks, I'd rather choose my own dinner companions.![]()
lilybeth11602 said:Not everyone wants to talk to complete strangers while eating there dinner. Just because you like it doesnt mean its for everyone but it doesnt mean you dont like to be around people either. Everyone is different and I dont think you should talk down to someone because their different from you.
mickeyluv'r said:This has never been an issue for us. We've never dined at the above locations, but we have dined at WDW many times, at many locations. I'm curious as to why this would be an issue for you. At WDW you will be surrounded by other people ALL DAY long, so if that is an issue for your family, maybe WDW isn't the best vacation location for your family.
The only time we dined with another family was completely our doing, and it was great. We had an ADR for 5 at a very popular location, and two of our party cancelled. Instead of changing our ADR, we just found two people who were waiting, and asked them to join us. They probably would not have gotten a seat otherwise, and we had a great conversation with them! EVeryone was very happy. It was one of our best WDW meals ever!
mickeyluv'r said:My post wasn't a dig on anyone's eating preferences. We've eaten at many restaurants at WDW, just not at the particular places that others listed as having group tables, so getting a (forced) group table has never happened to us there.
Conversely, at most WDW restaurants where you do have your own table, you are still close enough to your neighbors to easily carry on a conversation with them (if you choose) and to hear what they are discussing. Many times we've had neighbors having distasteful conversations. A trip to WDW is wrought with such exposure.
The one time we shared our table with another couple, we had what I'd describe as a perfectly normal conversation. I think our guests were equally delighted. One of the things that made the conversation so much fun was that we discovered we had mutual friends - that whole six degrees thing! I guess we got lucky we didn't meet someone who was offended by our offer. Yikes!
Going to WDW requires a lot of tolerance with being constantly surrounded by other people: many attractions require you to sit next to complete strangers: WDW transportation, be it bus, monorail, or boat; waiting in line for every attraction, snack, QS meal, and so forth. Your hotel room is about as quiet as your day gets, and even then, most families are confined to tighter quarters than they would have at home. It is difficult for some people to tolerate that kind of immersion for a week, and it is a factor for our family-- even though we did enjoy that meal immensely.
So yes, IF constantly being surrounded buy other people is difficult for a particular family to tolerate, then they should factor that into their choice of vacation destination. I don't think saying as much is talking down to someone. I think relaying that idea to someone new to WDW is providing helpful information that they might not have previously realized if they've never been there. Phew!
Uncleromulus said:Let's keep the original question in mind as we "discuss" this..
Should add my .02 worth and say that some WDW restaurants do have tables quite close together. For me, that's still different than actually being seated with others. Never been a big fan of actual communal dining--and that's why we avoid places like Teppanyaki and Biergarten.
But as we see, others have a great time in places like that.
Different strokes.