I have an intense dislike for, "God doesn't give you any more than you can bear/handle...."
I believe it's already been proven wrong many times. Who can count the number of people who have been broken by being burdened with one too many tragedies or heartbreaks? Just because you keep breathing doesn't mean you are "handling" it.....You're just carrying on with an involuntary response. Merely NOT dropping dead does NOT mean you are bearing what life has handed you.
I think it's a silly saying meant to make people see light at the end of the tunnel when in fact, sometimes the "light" is a train headed their way.

I'm not as depressed as this post sounds.....

I just cannot emphasize enough how much I loathe that saying.