I agree totally with all that has been written here. Kudo's to the writers, I couldn't have sad it better.
Back in 2001, when Fred and I first entered into this hobby, I was awarded 2 of the CTT pins. Both were very dear to me. Although one became tarnished when I saw in later months and the coming year how the person who awarded me one of them acted as a pin trader, as well as their attitude in general. I then became very disallusioned in the pin they had given me, and it no longer had much meaning to me. So I set it aside in my book.
A while later at EPCOT I met this wonderful Japanese couple, and were working on a trade and chatting as well. They were alot of fun to talk with and bubbled with enthusiasm. They of course had some wonderul pins of my favorite bear, so I was certainly enjoying myself. Anyway, as we were finishing up he saw the CTT I had set aside in my book and he gleamed. I took notice of this, as we continued to chat. Now I know I could have gotten a really great pin from him for it, as a matter of fact he had a HTF Pooh auction pin that I wanted, but outside of that CTT, I had nothing to trade for it.
So as we were saying goodbye and thanking each other, I took that CTT out of my book and gave it to him , and thanked him for his friendliness, and generosity in trading. His wife started to tear up and he was beaming! He hugged me and then reached back in his bag, and gave me the Pooh auction pin!!! WOW!!! It was one of my first truely "magical" moments in in trading. He said he would never trade it and always keep it as a gift from his "new American friend". Now I guess some would say, we traded. But in my heart, I feel I awarded it to him and he "gifted " me the Pooh pin.
As far as my other CTT's and my Scoop pin go, I would NEVER ever trade them. I can remember the time I got each one of them, and what the circumstances were. It was always very special. And yes, I probably got my Scoop pin because Scoop new me. But I am sure, and certainly hope it was because I do what I can to promote the true spirit of Pin Trading. I know not everyone who deserves them is recognized.
In that regard I think of my husband Fred. He has never been awarded a CTT or a Scoop pin. As many of you know, I am "out" there trading and having fun, while Fred for the most part is a "wall Flower" at most meets, watching my purse, extra bags, watching people or yes, NAPPING!!
Fred is very quiet about his trading. He enjoys seeing a kid with a brand new lanyard, who is obviously just starting. He will ask the parents permission and appproach them with small pin bag in hand that we use for kids. It has a little of everything in it, including some LE's. He will then trade with them, or many times he has just given them a pin of their favorite character. I think it's wonderful. But I guess I'm a bit prejuduice where he is concerned,
I do hate seeing these pins in traders books. It means the pin that we hold dear had little or no meaning to those who were awarded it. And I have to honest and say, it makes you wonder how they got it in the first place. It seems if you are awarded it for a good reason, you'd want to keep it. I guess I'm over-sentimental.
So as for me, I'll always cherish my CTT's and Scoop pin, for those that don't, well, as Donna used to say, I guess they just, "don't get it". Their loss!
Blessings to all,
Winnie