What is the most frustrating thing you are currently dealing with?

I need an MRI to further investigate a tiny lesion on my pancreas that was discovered during a different MRI for something unrelated last year. I'm having no symptoms that would indicate a problem, and so Medicaid has denied it. I guess I have to have symptoms of cancer, God Forbid, before they'll let me have the MRI. I have to resubmit the claim on Monday and my doctor is requesting a peer-to-peer this time. Fingers crossed, they approve it.
 
My father. Ever since he suffered a traumatic brain injury several years ago, his behavior has been challenging. He hams it up for the doctors, so they see him as functional, until we explain that he's verbally abusive towards our stepmother, keeps insisting that he's moving out west (we're on the east coast, no family beyond New England), and he doesn't care if he dies.

Mentally, it's beyond frustrating...
 
Funky blood work triggered a series of appointments with four specialists, 3 biopsies and took 18 months to complete with the wait to see specialists and get tests approved......to discover.....my blood pressure medicine is causing it all. Very rare side effect apparently, but drugs I was given to prevent damage to my circulatory system.....caused damage to it. Switching meds should stop further damage, but some damage I may never recover from.
 
Work stuff. I have to have performance appraisals, talent assessments, merit planning, variable pay calculations and goals all done by the end of the month along with traveling 12 hours round trip for an in person meeting next week and my normal work. If I could clone myself at least for a month or two, I’d be super happy. Normally my job is pretty laid back but September and October is crazy town.
 
I’ve stated before I am in the middle of an unwanted divorce. It’s sucking the life right out of me. Verbal and emotional abuse are no joke and people think I should be relieved to be out from it. I wish it were that simple. With kids involved it makes it all the more difficult.
@BlueStarryHat how very frustrating they don’t seem to want to actually help prevent/catch any health issues early.
 
Our vets office close suddenly just after the first of the year. They sent an email asking everyone to let them know where they wanted their records sent. I sent an email with the name of a new vet we were going to use. They sent several messages asking us not to send multiple requests and not to worry, they would get to all our requests. We went to our new vet today for the first time and they didn't have our records!!! I was so mad.
 
My mother and teenage DD have a highly dysfunctional relationship. They are each other's best friend and view each other as girlfriends vs grandmother/granddaughter. Basically, my mother has undermined our parenting for years and DD knew it and played it to her advantage and now we are considered the worst parents in history.

All sorts of good times happening here.
 
It's been a crappy summer and intensified lately. I just didn't want to put it out there, hoping things would get better. #1 My exH (father of my 4 kids) passed away 2 weeks ago from a heart value fix surgery. My kids and grandkids are having a rough time. My oldest grandson was just accepted to the college 2 hours a way where his grandpa lived. #2 My oldest DS caught his wife cheating. She moved out then moved back in but in one of the kid's bedrooms. She just moved out again and is dictating the visitation. My oldest grandson is 17 and considers his room where he lives and he's outta here in months anyway to college, my granddaughter is angry at her mother and my youngest grandson is a pleaser. The other night my oldest grandson had to call 911 because my DIL was in the garage with a hammer smashing my DS stuff. The neighbor came over, calmed her down and told her to leave. The police showed up later and gave my son an incident report. I'm waiting for my DS's lovey dovey mood to get over and take her to court for child support as she is an OR nurse and he's a teacher. He has the kids more than she does and has already told the daughter that she may have to watch the little one if she decides to do overtime on "her weekend". His life is falling apart right now. She had people come over and move her out on the day of his dad's memorial (she couldn't wait one day as she was extremely close to him also) So yep, it's been a crap show here lately.
 
Having to stock back up on cold weather clothing for my new job in which I spend an overwhelming majority of the time in the 37 degree portion of a warehouse. Between moving to Florida and gaining some weight, I had gotten rid of most of what I had.
 
















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