The majority of states charge an annual fee to capture the lost gas tax. EV are not getting a free ride. I pay a little over $200 per year in Georgia to pay my share of the gas tax.
My state only charges an extra $100 for annual registration fees for EVs, and you get a tax credit yearly. Which is great for the owner, but kinda makes for a loss on the $ for roadways.
On trips I stop for 30 minutes every 3 hours. I spend the majority of that time going to the bathroom. I also time my stops with tasks needed on the trip like shopping for breakfast/lunch items that will be eaten at the destination. I estimate I could save less than 30 minutes driving ICE on a typical road trip I take that has 2 DCFC sessions. And my car is a slower charging car. The 800v cars are significantly faster.
I'd be out on that point lol. I can get around 650 miles per tank on my car depending on the drive. Like I said earlier, I know they are great for many people, and lots of people have no problems with the range or the stopping or whatever. Just like lots of people will take flights with layovers to save a few bucks. I don't want to take any longer than I absolutely have to to get to my destination, so I will not book a flight with a layover unless that is my only choice, and I don't want to stop any more or any longer than I have to when driving.
Another consideration is the weather where you live. If you live in the south where there aren't super cold spells, not as much to consider, tho extreme heat can also affect the battery life. But if you live up north, where you have cold winters, you have to factor in that the cold decreases your range by up to 39%, and makes it take longer to charge. This past January in Chicago there were numerous stories where due to the sub zero weather, people were stranded because the cars lost so much range and it was so cold it was taking hours to charge them, or the charging stations were completely out of service. I've worked for the state in different buildings, both in the state capital, and out, including the hospital I work at now. Not one of the 4 places I've worked at in the last 5 has a single charging station or garage parking. And sure, proper planning can offset these issues some, lie panning your charges, paying more attention to your range, parking indoors etc. But even temps as high as 20 F can cause 12% drain on the battery as compared to 75 F temps. Of course cold weather affects ICE vehicles too. But my car is a diesel, which tend to have more problems in the cold than gas cars because it can gel. The only thing I have to do in the winter when I know it's going to be bitterly cold, like below zero wind chill advisory type cold, is make sure that I put some anti gel stuff in the tank, but further north, like Chicago, in the winter all the diesel is a winter blend with that already added. I think I've had to do that once each of the 2 winters I've had it. But that's it.
Again, there are so many factors that come into play in considering an EV, that there just isn't going to be one answer that works for everyone. Not everyone travels the same way, or has access to the same charging capabilities. We don't all need or want the same things out of a vehicle. A retired couple isn't going to want/need the same thing in a car as a couple with 3-4 kids in school. People who live in a metro area with 5 Targets and 37 Starbucks (give or take) within 10 mins and plenty of access to public transportation, aren't going to have the same needs as someone who lives 45 mins from a Target. Just like lots of families live within walking distance of their school, while some of us have an hour or more bus ride each way. Some people live within Uber distance of an airport, and some of us are 2 hours away. Some people put 5,000 miles on their car in a year, some do that in a month. But lots and lots of us have done the research, looked at all the things, and just have made the decision for whatever reason, an EV isn't the best choice for us at this time. Would it maybe work out better than I think? Sure. Is that a chance I'm willing to shell out I'm willing to shell out 90K for (a Rivian R1S is the closest thing to my Yukon XL w/ duramax)? Nope. For more $ the Rivian tows less, has a shorter range than my car, and less space.