I don't know how rural you live but I know I frequently visit middle Georgia, and I don't think you can get much more rural and isolated than middle Georgia. Often spending weeks at a time there visiting family. I drive right at 20,000 miles a year and my wife another 8,000. My cost for that is about $600 a year in electricity. If I drove those same 28000 miles at 25 MPG I would be looking at $4000+. I'll take that $3400 a year in savings and go on vacation.
Charging in middle Georgia was annoying but is now a breeze. The same for our trips to Panama City Beach. Trips there required lots of planning because there was NO DCFC but now there are several options.
Now that the Tesla Supercharger network has opened up to Ford EV I no longer feel the need to do any sort of trip planning for charging when taking a road trip anywhere in the southeast. Any further than that and I would just fly but people drive EV across the country every day. I know I am 50 miles or less at the vast majority of times from a compatible and working DCFC. The built in route planning or the route planning in Apple maps will take me to a charger if needed.
As for repair times and costs, they currently stink for virtually any newer car. There are so many sensors to support lane keeping, adaptive cruise control, parking, etc, that the slightest bump causes $10,000 or more in damage. Set off an airbag and the car is totaled no matter what energy is used to drive the wheels.
Cars are designed to sacrifice themselves to save the occupants.
There are hundreds of thousands of rural EV drivers who drive everyday. I see more and more in rural Georgia when visiting my family.
On the sports kids theme, my neighbors son plays travel lacrosse. One of the other parents on the team rents a Tesla for every sports road trip because he has found it cheaper to rent an EV and drive than drive his own Tahoe and pay for gas and wear and tear. So far he has driven from Georgia to Maryland, Virginia, North Carolina, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania. All as someone who does not own an EV and has not had any issues. Another parent saw his success and thought he would do the same. He rented a Chevy Bolt, as a non EV owner did no research about public charging, and ended up having to abandon the car part way and fly the rest of the way. So yeah, not for everyone.
As you said:
That is very true for many people and EV. Many people are not going to believe driving an EV is possible for their lifestyle until they see a friend or neighbor that has already switched and lives a similar lifestyle.
As for the diehard fullsize SUV in you, I have been working on convincing my wife that we should look at the KIA EV9. Dimensionally it is very similar to a regular Yukon but only has the option for 7 and not 8. All for very similar pricing but far cheaper operating costs in favor of the EV9.