You never go to restaurants or get fast food? Literally every fast food restaurant you order a drink from hands you a drink with a lid and a straw. If you sit down and eat at a restaurant and get a fountain drink, the waiter is going to almost always hand you a straw. Maybe you run in weird circles.
But as for paper/plastic, I prefer plastic, but paper does the job on most fountain drinks. On frozen drinks or milkshakes, they are terrible. Granted I have seen a couple large diameter ones recently, so maybe they are figuring that out.
Actually, no, I haven’t had fast food in probably 30 years outside of WDW. And at a restaurant (which is maybe twice per year at most), I use a glass just like I do at home. On a plane, again, no straw just a glass (plastic though of course). I never use a straw, don’t own any, and I’m surprised at how many adults demand them. I don’t tend to use any plastic if possible to avoid- landfills are filled with our disposable items from straws to k-cups to laundry containers.
My daughter buys those cold coffee drinks, and they often come with a straw I know.
I don’t “run in weird circles”- I just don’t drink soda or other things with sugar or artificial sugar- so I didn’t get this big straw hullabaloo.