We were there last week with DDs 8 & 5. Favorites were different for each:
DD8:
River Rapids at AK
Rockin Rollercoaster and Fantasmic at DS
Mission Space and Soarin at EP
Thunder Mountain, Space Mountain, Christmas Parade at MK
DD5:
River Rapids and Lion King show at AK
Start Tours, Beauty and Beast Live and Fantasmic at DS
Soarin at EP
Thunder Mountain, Philharmagic, Small World, Cinderellabration at MK
Adults:
Lion King show at AK
Rockin Rollercoaster, Beauty and the Beast Live and Fantasmic at DS
Soarin and World Showcase at RP
Philharmagic, parades, Cinderellabration, Space Mountain at MK
We had a great time and tried to balance activities for the kids and their different ages and courage levels.
I will say this.......It's Tough To Be a Bug TERRIFIED my DD5. It was the first thing we did on our very first day, and I thought the rest of the week was up in smoke after that. She cried and screamed the entire time with her face mostly buried in DH's neck. It took her an hour to recover. So be forwarned that although we see it as fun and non-threatening, it doesn't look that way to a young child!