DJBounce
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To all my fellow DisWishers,
On my way home from work tonight I was mentally going through this upcoming weekend and I thought of something I heard Tony Robbins say once. He said (not a direct quote, but you know what I mean) that motivation could be a song, or a warm bath, but inspiration is something that drives us. Seeing how this is the We're INSPIRED to Stay Healthy board I thought that it might be nice to get my head in check by reflecting what my inspiration is for this weekend. Quite simply, it's my wife Darcey. Now those of you who are married may say, "Well duh, your spouse, thats a no brainer answer"..but hear me out.
Last February my wife and I decided to sign up and train for the 2007 WDW Half Marathon. At that point we have been in other races before (as walkers, as we are this weekend), but have never done one as long as a Half. As a result of signing up my wife and I made appointments with our respective doctors for a checkup, just to make sure the engines are running on all cylinders and the suspension will hold up. WELL....my wife had an abnormal Pap, and she was referred to a gynocologist for further workup. The further workup resulted in a diagnosis of cervical cancer. As I type this I can still remember that phone call my wife got from the doctor. We were in the kitchen when it came and after the call we were so shocked that we didn't really know how to react. Her cancer was a slow moving group of cells (so low on the list it wasn't even a stage yet it was referred to as malignant cells in situ), and the doctor was confident that surgery would more than take care of it. The less invasive option was to cryogenically freeze them, but the doctor recommended the surgical route as it was more of a permanent solution as with the cryo there was a chance they could return. Many tears and hugs later, we decided to go the route of surgery. Now I had a Grandfather I was VERY close to pass away a couple of years ago from cancer and the thought of losing my wife was all too real and it weighed heavily on my mind. As we felt that our three children were enough of a family she scheduled and underwent surgery to remove her uterus and cervix. Her surgery was done in May. She spent the next 6 weeks recovering and still had residual pain for some time after.
The surgery was a success as my wife has had two negative Paps and we're all (my wife, me, the doc) are confident that this ordeal is behind us. But I was thinking tonight "What if we didn't sign up for this race?" How slow moving were those cells", "when would we have found out?" It was all too real, and I knew that this had to be a post to share with my teammates.
So my inspiration is my wife, not only what is our time together, but what could have been. I am very humbled to have such a loving and wonderful woman for a soulmate, and it is truly an honor and priveldge to race this weekend not only FOR her but WITH her. And when we cross that finish line we will be hand in hand and raise them up in personal victory.
So my teammates, I ask...What inspires you?
Humbly and appreciatively yours
Andrew
The XY of DJBounce
On my way home from work tonight I was mentally going through this upcoming weekend and I thought of something I heard Tony Robbins say once. He said (not a direct quote, but you know what I mean) that motivation could be a song, or a warm bath, but inspiration is something that drives us. Seeing how this is the We're INSPIRED to Stay Healthy board I thought that it might be nice to get my head in check by reflecting what my inspiration is for this weekend. Quite simply, it's my wife Darcey. Now those of you who are married may say, "Well duh, your spouse, thats a no brainer answer"..but hear me out.
Last February my wife and I decided to sign up and train for the 2007 WDW Half Marathon. At that point we have been in other races before (as walkers, as we are this weekend), but have never done one as long as a Half. As a result of signing up my wife and I made appointments with our respective doctors for a checkup, just to make sure the engines are running on all cylinders and the suspension will hold up. WELL....my wife had an abnormal Pap, and she was referred to a gynocologist for further workup. The further workup resulted in a diagnosis of cervical cancer. As I type this I can still remember that phone call my wife got from the doctor. We were in the kitchen when it came and after the call we were so shocked that we didn't really know how to react. Her cancer was a slow moving group of cells (so low on the list it wasn't even a stage yet it was referred to as malignant cells in situ), and the doctor was confident that surgery would more than take care of it. The less invasive option was to cryogenically freeze them, but the doctor recommended the surgical route as it was more of a permanent solution as with the cryo there was a chance they could return. Many tears and hugs later, we decided to go the route of surgery. Now I had a Grandfather I was VERY close to pass away a couple of years ago from cancer and the thought of losing my wife was all too real and it weighed heavily on my mind. As we felt that our three children were enough of a family she scheduled and underwent surgery to remove her uterus and cervix. Her surgery was done in May. She spent the next 6 weeks recovering and still had residual pain for some time after.
The surgery was a success as my wife has had two negative Paps and we're all (my wife, me, the doc) are confident that this ordeal is behind us. But I was thinking tonight "What if we didn't sign up for this race?" How slow moving were those cells", "when would we have found out?" It was all too real, and I knew that this had to be a post to share with my teammates.
So my inspiration is my wife, not only what is our time together, but what could have been. I am very humbled to have such a loving and wonderful woman for a soulmate, and it is truly an honor and priveldge to race this weekend not only FOR her but WITH her. And when we cross that finish line we will be hand in hand and raise them up in personal victory.
So my teammates, I ask...What inspires you?
Humbly and appreciatively yours
Andrew
The XY of DJBounce
I can somewhat relate to what she has gone through as I had a couple of abnormal paps when I was 19 or 20. Fortunately, they were pre-cancerous cells I didn't have to endure the whole cancer treatment ordeal. My heart goes out to her.
to you, your family and that doctor! The world is at your feet now.
Anne (Maherae) and Kathy (nycpa) sent me pms and encouraged me to stick with it. My friend was also very persistent. I slowly started getting a little better and gained a little more confidence. At the start of each new LR, however, I had my doubts but with each LR, I was able to do a little better than the time before. Thank God that I failed to read all the advice that you should already have had a good exercise program in place for about a year before attempting to do this. It wasn't until I was about three or four weeks into the training that I discovered this tidbit.

I am soo looking forward to this weekend! 
) and I have to say each one of your courage and determination inspires me.
Andrew – It is funny you mention the back pain. The last surgery, I think, I was on the table for 9 hours and 40 minutes. Even now, I remember the agony of the back pain when I came to. And they were very careful with what they gave me because of the heart issues. Between people practically standing on my groin incisions and the back pain, I was not so thrilled to be conscious! 
Your marriage must be pretty strong. It is great to haev a partner in it, though, isn't it?
What is most amazing to me is all of the people who set a goal and achieved it. There was a lady running by us in the 1/2 marathon Saturday whose shirt said, " The miracle is, I had the courage to start" And that is the truth. That inspired me through some very tough miles on that 13 mile course.