What do your Kids do during High Tea ?

mickeydonalgoofyyyy

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There is a recent thread about men and the High Tea. I originally was thinking of taking my 4 y.o. dtr with me while my husband and son (7) did an activity together (nothing yet planned). However, I am under the impression that the tea is really more of an adult experience. So I got to thinking that if there was a fun kids activity during the time the tea is available we may have couple time while they do something geared to them. The pirate cruise would have been great but, I do not think it is offered during that time. If there is no other option does anyone have experience taking a ussually :angel: well behaved 4 y.o. ? I had to cancel the tea last trip and really want to go next time. I can not book anything yet but having fun plotting and planning :goodvibes.
 
good question...

and I dont know!

I do know that we enjoy the High Tea - I did a dismeet one year and dh refused to join us (BIG misunderstanding, and he was sorry - he thought it was a "girls only" thing) anyway - he promised to do it the following year... dd wanted to do the "high tea" (I am a big loose leaf, teapot drinker tho! as was my grandma!) she ordered a tea - and then the other kids in the meet had the "Mrs. Pots" pbj and chocolate milk - the kind cm noticed dd's eyes and offered to bring her a Mrs Pots - (and only charged me for the Mrs Potts! :goodvibes)

Then she spent a year trying teas, and discovered she liked darjeleeng tea - we went back - and dh and dd and I had a marvelous, 2 hour tea!! Its a slow, relaxed wonderful time!!

not sure how a 4year old will handle the slow quiet time - but I understand how you would want to do this tea...

good luck with whatever you chose to do!!
 
Take your kids with you. You can order a special tea service just for them!
 
I did this last year with my then 4 year old daughter and it was great. She still talks about it and we are doing it again this year.

They treated us like royalty and the tea was amazing. My only concern was that DD might break the Royal Albert china (since we are both clutzy) but thankfully nothing was broken and we had a great time.

My DD likes tea so she had real tea but they have kids choices of choc. milk and apple juice as well.

My DH and DS (just turning 4 on the trip) our joining us this time.

Now I am REALLY worried that DS will break something. LOL! He's sort of a bull in a china shop.

Seriously though it was a great memory.
 

There is also the Wonderland Tea Party at the Grand Floridian. I beleive it is offered every afternoon at 2:00.

My dds (10 and 11) went with me in Feb. to the Gardenview Tead, and we did see several little girls there who looked to be about 4 or 5.
 
What and where is High Tea? After umpteen trips, this is the first I've heard of it!
 
You can take your daughter with you. They even have a special tea menu item for kids (it's really chocolate milk). I'll be taking my 5-year-old to have "tea" while my DH takes my 6-year-old and 15-year-old to play puttputt. He's not interested in tea, the 15 yo would never eat or drink anything they had, and my 6 yo is way too talkative. I think my 5 yo super tea-party princess will love it. Besides, I would never want to go alone. :cool1:
 
We are taking our 4 yo DS to the tea. I do see a kids menu. So I figured it would be OK. I am sure you will be fine going with kids.
 
My DD has been a tea fan for a long time. Her and her mom have been going to teas whenever they are on vacation together. She has done the Plaza in NY, this place in Georgia (where her mother now lives) but her favorite is at the Grand Floridian.

It depends on the temperament of your daughter. If she can sit through a leisurely meal, then it would be a great experience. As mentioned, they have a chocolate milk option with more kid friendly foods for the younger set. She might surprise you and go for the scones and finger sandwiches.

On a recent trip with DD and her friend, they had tea and made a big deal of it. Dressed up a bit and had a great “adult” experience together. They are both 15. As usual when she goes to tea, I went to the Tambu Lounge at the Poly for a cocktail and the crab cake appetizer. Don’t be afraid of Dad and son joining you, but there are plenty of other things they can do on their own. Could be a great mother/daughter dad/son time.
 
Here's the thing with the GF Tea......it is intended to be an adult experience, the room is very small, very elegant and very quiet, with lots of fine china.

They do indeed have a children's menu, but I'd only be comfortable bringing kids who were old enough to sit quietly for the entire time we were there. Some of the tables are very close together, and flinging a little arm or jumping up and bumping the table will land your tea service in your neighbor's lap. Raised voices will get the attention of the entire room.

It can be a wonderful mother/daughter experience, or family experience. But if the little one doesn't quite get the concept of inside voices, or tends to be bouncy and jumping around a lot, I'm afraid you're going to be uncomfortable there, and might want to wait a few years.
 
oh thought I'd add - for kids that like weak style tea - (DD spent a year trying different teas!!) she loves Darjaleeng tea - went to the Tea, and it wasnt a choice, her face fell, and the CM asked her, and I mentioned she was hoping for the Darjaleen - well, the CM said they had it! (but it wasnt on the menu!)

so keep that in mind!

Here's some of our pictures!!

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DD was the lightest tea - Darjaleen
DH had the next lightest - Oolong
I had the darkest - Eros, it was a blend, and very flavorful!
 
There is also the My Disney Girl tea with Sleeping Beauty...but, its a lot more expensive than just the regular tea. I think at Disney, people know to expect children in places that they otherwise would probably not be appropriate.

That being said, my now 3 year old has had tea all over the place and loves it. At the Brown Palace in Denver, she and my mom had high tea and the pianist played Its a Small World, Twinkle Twinkle Little Star and other favorites especially for her. She loved it! If your child will sit still for it, its a lovely experience. And honestly, the best way to get her to sit still is to start doing it early. Disney is the perfect place for that, since you're granted some leeway!

We're doing the Sleeping Beauty tea this time...its practically all she can talk about!
 
What and where is High Tea? After umpteen trips, this is the first I've heard of it!

They're referring to the Afternoon Tea in the GF Garden View Tea Room.

I've never heard it referred to as "High Tea" either :rotfl2:

Here's the thing with the GF Tea......it is intended to be an adult experience, the room is very small, very elegant and very quiet, with lots of fine china.

They do indeed have a children's menu, but I'd only be comfortable bringing kids who were old enough to sit quietly for the entire time we were there. Some of the tables are very close together, and flinging a little arm or jumping up and bumping the table will land your tea service in your neighbor's lap. Raised voices will get the attention of the entire room.

It can be a wonderful mother/daughter experience, or family experience. But if the little one doesn't quite get the concept of inside voices, or tends to be bouncy and jumping around a lot, I'm afraid you're going to be uncomfortable there, and might want to wait a few years.

I completely agree!!

I would never bring my children, they'd be out of place and completely bored. I enjoy going alone and leaving DH with the kids at the pool. I enjoy my quiet mommy-time ;)

I have brought a sleeping child in a stroller to tea several times. Last June DS2 slept the whole 2 hours I was there! :thumbsup2

That should tell you just how quiet the tea room is :rotfl:
 
I took DD when 5 and again when 8. I think this is a GREAT opportunity to do a MUCH cheaper knockoff of the Wonderland tea. Make a big deal about it, dress up , do your hair, bejewel her, crown her, take lots of photos and she'll never know she missed a princess because SHE was the princess. She'll have all the great memories of the fuss you made for a "tea party." My concern on the second visit was taking DS 5 along (no sitters this time) I took small toys for him to play with and even joked with the hostess that we may not make it out with all china intact. He did great and turned out he was more interested in the experience than I thought. I refused to pay $7 for a 5 yo to have his own tea and take 2 sips so I ordered him milk even though he insisted on tea. He had tears in his eyes as the waitress took away his tea cup and she explained he couldn't use it for his milk unless we paid the $7 (my total bill was over $50 for the 3 of us) and this pretty much somes up our Disney magic experiences with CM's. I slid my cup across the table and had to "borrow" it for each sip I took.
 
Thank you everyone! I guess I started calling it the "High Tea" after reading it be called that recently:).

Not a History person - but I believe "High Tea" is an English Tradition - its an afternoon (later) snack - because in the English tradition the "ton" or "haute ton" would go to balls and such and supper wouldnt be till around midnight...

hmmm going to google, because I'm sure I dont really know!!

Afternoon tea is a light meal typically eaten between 3pm and 5pm. It originated in the United Kingdom, though various places that used to be part of the former British Empire also have such a meal. However, changes in social customs and working hours mean that most Britons only take afternoon tea on special/formal occasions.
Traditionally, loose tea would be served in a teapot with milk and sugar. This would be accompanied by various sandwiches (customarily cucumber, egg and cress, fish paste, ham, and smoked salmon), scones (with butter, clotted cream and jam — see cream tea) and usually cakes and pastries (such as Battenberg, fruit cake or Victoria sponge). The food would be often served in a tiered stand.
While afternoon tea used to be an everyday event, nowadays it is more likely to be taken as a treat in a hotel, café, or tea shop, although many Britons still have a cup of tea and slice of cake or chocolate at teatime. Accordingly, many hotels now market a champagne cream tea.
Anna Maria Stanhope, Duchess of Bedford, is credited as the first person to have afternoon tea in England.
[edit]High tea
High tea (also known as meat tea[1]) is an early evening meal, typically eaten between 5pm and 6pm in the evening. It would be eaten as a substitute for both afternoon tea and the evening meal. It is now largely replaced by a later evening meal.
It would usually consist of cold meats, eggs or fish, cakes and sandwiches. In a family, it tends to be less formal and is an informal snack (featuring sandwiches, biscuits, pastry, fruit and the like) or else it is the main evening meal.
On farms or other working class environments, "high tea" would be the traditional, substantial meal eaten by the workers immediately after nightfall, and would combine afternoon tea with the main evening meal. See also The UK Tea Council Definition.
In recent years, high tea has become a term for elaborate afternoon tea, though this is American usage and mainly unrecognised in Britain. Such usage is disfavored by etiquette advisors, such as Miss Manners (see below).
[edit]United States

For most of the United States, the morning or afternoon break is not normally referred to as tea as the beverage has not traditionally been a widespread choice with Americans. The term coffee break is used instead to denote a morning social gathering for a snack and short downtime where hot and cold beverages and cakes, breads and pastries are consumed.
The term "high tea" is sometimes used in the United States to refer to afternoon tea or the "tea party", a very formal, ritualised gathering in which tea, thin sandwiches and little cakes are served on the best china. This usage is an analogical construction, the term "high" being associated with social "formality" (rather than a "high", or main, table). Most etiquette mavens advise that such usage is unorthodox outside commercial contexts.
This form of tea is increasingly served in high-end American hotels, often during the Christmas holidays and other tourist seasons, and a rising number of big-city teahouses, where it is usually correctly described as "afternoon tea".The tea party is still occasionally given in the U.S., either for a special occasion or in honor of a visiting celebrity or guest.

well there you go!!

its all good - and it truly is a relaxing place - that feels high end -
"very civilized this tea notion"
 
Dd went to the wonderland Tea Party while we did tea. I picked her up half way thru my tea, and she sat with us while we finished. DD loved the bit she was with us, she had chocolate milk and one of my desserts.

The tea is wonderful and a new must do on my list, we had a great time and everything was wonderful!
 


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