The thing about it is for me, I've been
fanatical about teaching my children to be respectful of the dogs - as much for the kid's safety as for the well being of the dogs. They come to dog training with us and participate in the exercises; they come to the vet's and help hold and comfort the dog; they really do help care for and feed the dog (and do yard pickup right along with us

); and they're very concerned about her well being and safety - in fact
they were upset with
me recently because I didn't put her leash on and she ran into the street after a squirrel, LOL (they were right

). Soon to be 8, they love animals and have learned how to respect them. So I think that while some kids, sure, are not a good fit with certain dogs, some kids
are - but some rescue group's inflexible exclusions don't leave any room for individual circumstances. The dog we wanted would have been a great fit in our household with our elderly male dog who was missing his sister (a better fit than the puppy was, actually). And the sad part is that it took them a very long time to find her a home for her because of her medical condition.
With all that said I do know what you mean about kids and dogs. We had Liesl down at the school bus stop recently and one of the local kids (whose family does not have a dog) ran up to her and put her in a vise-like head lock while screaming like a banshee - DH was completely taken aback! The dog didn't know what to do but luckily she didn't react in a bad way.
BTW, I love the pictures of all the pets on the DIS but I wanted to say to remyandhollandsmommy that Xander is beautiful even if he is

(saw him on the anti-pet thread, LOL) and wdwmom2 your dog was beautiful (and multitalented) as well.

(My Cody [in red bandana] did agility too).
I just

those Shepherds!!