What do you think

[Makdyn]

Recently just broke with bf and have been trying to set up when we can exchange items back that we have of each others not a lot of stuff or importance except i have keys to his house. I would think he would want those back asap. He keeps telling me when he feels better he has a cold not deathly ill and its not like we will be hanging out i will go drop his items get mine and leave. I have left message saying we need to do this so then we can go out seperate ways we would not have to talk as much as we do now. Im ready to just go over there with the his things and hand them over when he opens the door and leave.

I dont know why the delay

 

[c4a]

Recently just broke with bf and have been trying to set up when we can exchange items back that we have of each others not a lot of stuff or importance except i have keys to his house. I would think he would want those back asap. He keeps telling me when he feels better he has a cold not deathly ill and its not like we will be hanging out i will go drop his items get mine and leave. I have left message saying we need to do this so then we can go out seperate ways we would not have to talk as much as we do now. Im ready to just go over there with the his things and hand them over when he opens the door and leave.

I dont know why the delay

Could be a lot of things. If you broke up with him...maybe, it wasn't what he wanted & he hopes that you will cool down, come to your senses (not to say you've lost them), and change your mind. If he did the breaking up...it could be he feels guilty and is afraid there maybe a scene. He could be sick & just doesn't feel like dealing with anything or anyone other than his pillow and remote control. He may not be sick...and saying he has a cold to excuse his snotty, crying, choked up voice because he isn't ready to deal with this-or you, yet. Only he knows & as part of the break up...he doesn't have to give a reason. Annoying, isn't it?

Reguardless of his reasons, I know it's causing an inconvience for you...but just give him about a week. Then set up a definite date for the "switch" & stand firm on the date/time. He just needs some space. If he still is noncommittal-then by all means...do the envelope drop off.

 

[disykat]

Maybe he just doesn't want to deal with the finality of it all.

Or it could be he doesn't want to part with something or has already sold it or given it away.

Was the breakup amicable?

 

[Anewman]

Guy speaking...


Maybe he is already over it, and he could care less if you return his things.

 

[onelilspark]

I broke up with an ex last August and I had a few things of his. Including football tickets that we had sent to my place even though he had paid for them. I'm a big football fan, so I was tempted to use them, but I decided to be the better person (I think he forgot I had them honestly, otherwise he would have asked for them back.)

In my situation, I honestly never wanted to see him again. Yours is slightly different, but this may help. What I did is mailed them back with a signature required. This way I knew he got them. So there was no coming back later saying, "where's my stuff?"

The only problem is if he has some of your things that you need back. Didn't sound like it from your org. post though. Maybe this is a solution?

Either way, good luck. And fyi: Disney is a great place to mend a broken heart

 

[Makdyn]

It was mutual i guess it was a long time coming. I know he is not that sick as i ask before how he was feeling and he said fine but now he is too sick please. Nothing of my at his house is sellable could careless if he throw it away. Just want to give the keys back even if he is over it he would still want his keys back I would not want someone to have a set. I know him to well he would not change the locks. Oh well