beattyfamily
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taylor1293 said:Thanks for the insight and please don't get me wrong, I don't see a problem with it, giving gifts is always a wonderful thing! I just don't understand why so many people tip their mail carrier/garbage people when they've never even met them. The analogy of your husband doesn't really apply. Your husband getting a bonus from his work is not the same thing as a total stranger giving him a "bonus" because he did his job.
I understand if you know the people personally, like a teacher, hairdresser, and cleaning person. Giving gifts to those people, because of the personal connection, makes sense to me. I give gifts to my kids teachers and I love to give gifts as much as the next person. However, it just seems odd to me to give gifts to people I don't know because they did what they were supposed to do.
I guess we have to agree to disagree.
I only give to those I know and talk with regularly so I do not give to our trashmen.