We ate at several character meals on our trip, and my boys both loved it. I didn't have to please a boy and a girl, but we did eat at the Princess Storybook breakfast and my the almost 4-yo loved that one, 15-month old didn't really care as long as he got to eat. Older DS didn't think twice about it being for "girls", there were several little boys there. We also did the 1900 Park Fare dinner with Cinderella, and DS liked it, but we won't do that one again either, DH and I didn't care for the food.
It's so hard to pick a favorite, but the kids loved them all. Even if the characters didn't always spend tons of time with us, the boys thought they were special for getting to eat with the characters, and that's all that mattered. They were happy just to see them!
Steph