I don't have anybody close to me overseas, but if I did, I don't think it would be healthy to watch all this. My great-grandmother had 6 sons in WW2. I could not imagine the horror of her watching everything unfold while all her boys were over there. Her daughters and dil's and babies would never have been cared for. There are times when it is better not to know everything. You can better carry on with your day to day activities without so much knowledge. 9/11 was a bit different as it was a one day activity with a short period of aftermath. This might be over in a week or two years. You can not maintain the living on the edge thing that long.
Goofy, I know you meant well. I too, felt guilty saying we shouldn't watch this all the time. But I know in my heart this is the right thing. To tell you how bad it is here right now, my dh has bowling on, on ESPN. YUCK.