Anyone know? Or just don't want to share with me?

I'd share anything with you if I knew the answer... later, I see Marr knew the answer.
DON'T READ THIS IF YOU DON'T WANT TO KNOW ABOUT LOST!!!
Since no one responded to anyone left that had not seen lost yet.....I'm going to talk about it because I finally watched the last three episodes yesterday and I didn't think it was good. By good, I expected some answers. They moved the Island and blew up the boat....ok.....and the rules are that whoever moves the Island, has to leave it.....so Ben left. Who makes up these rules that Ben and Penny's dad are playing by? And if Locke is the new Ben, then how did he end up on the mainland dead? I have to assume that father and daughter.....Christian and Claire.....are both dead.
Anybody have any ideas???
Here is what a friend of mine wrote to me after watching it:
So Locke (aka Jeremy Bentham?) is dead and in SoCal in a creepy
funeral home...bizarre! He didn't last long as Island Leader.
And Jin seems to be really dead. That was horrible. Very horrible.
And Michael, too, I assume.
I'm not so sure Jin is dead.
And what did Sawyer whisper to Kate before he jumped out of the
helicopter?! I was sure Hurley was going to jump out!
And Desmond and Penny were united after so long - YAY! One happy
ending!
Oh, and Sun confronted Penny's dad in London about something
something...I'm not quite clear. But Sun was hard...not nicey
nicey Sun!
Okay, and the redhead aussie chick that was from the freighter - one
of the other freighter guy's (the Asian who talks to ghosts) said
she'd been to the island before, but she denied it and then changed her
mind about leaving the island and stayed! She also said something about
discovering where she was born...was she born on the island?
And the island disappeared after evil-leader-guy Ben went down into
the something or other and turned a frozen wheel. And then he couldn't
stay on the island...why?
And Sayid got Hurley out of the mental institute and Hurley had
been playing chess with invisible Mr. Echo!
And Kate dreamt that Claire came to her in a dream and said not to
take Aaron back to the island, but they all have to go back to fix
whatever went wrong?!?!?!?!
I totally have to rewatch it to see what I missed. It was so
exciting. And Sayid just gets more and more handsome. Jack, too.
I've noticed how everyone in the UK still irons. People in the US don't iron anymore do they? I know that I sure don't iron like I used to.
We are big ironers here.... its how we watch so much TV
We are hoping this tank will get us to Missoula, or near anyway. I'm not sure what the prices are there, but they do have a Costco with gas. I'd like to see $3.81 per gallon again here.
Oh, oh. We can gas at Coeur d Alene, ID for $3.69 at Safeway or 3.74 at Costco!
Costco here was $4.33 yesterday.