I am not sticking up for anyone that smokes in a non-smoking room, but there are not that many smoking rooms. There are times that they give you non-smoking even when requesting smoking. My husband smokes, I don't. I hate when he smokes in the same room that I am in. I have requested smoking (when he comes with me) and have ended up in a non smoking room. What should a person do then?

He has smoked in the bathroom. If he stands outside the doorway it is even worse because then anyone walking past walks thru the smoke. The last time we stayed at Pop was Oct 1-4th requested smoking, got non-smoking. When I book a deluxe, I ask for smoking & since they have balconies, he will smoke there. When I book mod or value (no balconies) & request smoking & I have him smoke in the bathroom. Trust me, I understand what you are saying. My son has asthma & when he was younger, I couldn't have my husband in the house with a cig! My mom has lung cancer from the darn things. I hate it more than anything, so as I said, I am not sticking up for smokers that do it on purpose, but there are times that they end up in a non-smoking room & they do have as much right to a room preference as anyone else. Smoking is a nasty
habbit & it is very addictive, so to give a smoker a non-smoking room and expect them not to smoke in it is not too swift

I don't have an answer as to what can be done. Should they make more rooms for smokers? Maybe.....
Again, I am not saying what happened to you was right, but there may have been a legit reason.... The smoker wants a smoking room & can't get it, you want a non-smoking room & get stuck with the smell.... It may have been better if you did move your room??? Your DD may not have gotten sick. I have had to move at Pop because the room I was in (for 3 days) I got bite up in at night. I thought it was bed bugs, I was told by front desk it could have been fleas. I am allergic to fleas... I had welts all over my legs. Fleas... I asked the front desk clerk with a puzzled look. She said yes could be from a previous guest with a service dog. Once she said that & offered to move me, I jumped on it. I packed everything up, they moved it for me. The remainder of my stay (4 more nights) were flea (or bed bug) free....
As far as the toilet paper thing, Yuk!!!!! That would have made me sick for the remainder of the trip. I would hate to think that housekeeping would do that on spite.... even moving your room wouldn't have solved that problem. That can get someone even more sick than the smell of smoke. That actually carries germs & whatnot in it....