MarkBarbieri
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Good luck. I've got a co-worker (who is an avid photographer) getting married in May. I've been picked to be his photographer. I've got to shoot the bridal portraits next Friday.
Good luck! You are probably shooting right now... hope it is going smoothly!
Oh and please do post afterwards! I agreed to do a wedding for a friend (no wedding budget to speak of, second marriage, would not hire a pro) and am a bit terrified. Would love to hear how it goes for you, what you learn, advice, etc.

First question: I know you're both family friends, but does the paid photographer know what you'll be doing and are they OK with it? I understand that it doesn't sound like you'll be shooting over their shoulder, and will be doing different photos, but if they think your actions may be taking photo sales away from them, they might not be too happy having a "shadow photographer" work around them.
If you are going for photojournalistic types of shots then there isn't anything you can recreate because being a photojournalist means you capturing action organic to the event you are shooting.![]()
That's a red flag for me. Don't rely on what the bride says. Unless you can confirm that the bride has expressly talked to the photographer about what you will (and won't) be doing or you've talked to them personally I think there's a good chance one of you won't be the friend of the bride after the wedding. If the photographer is charging a flat rate, they won't likely mind your efforts, but if they're going to sell prints they'll likely view you as a threat to their pocketbook. It doesn't matter if you're talking different photos. If they like your non-traditional photos of the happy couple better than the posed ones in the front of the altar, they may not order prints from the official photographer and just go with yours.I broached things carefully with the bride because I was concerned about this as well. She seemed to think everything was hunky-dory, but the answer is, I don't really know if he's been told or not. She's a bit of a laid back bride.
This discussion has me curious. I understand about professional photographers having contracts stating that they will be the only hired pro at the event. This makes complete sense and needs to be respected.
However, at what point is it actually a violation of contract to have another guest there who is also taking pictures?
Let's say I'm a guest at a wedding, and I bring my D700 and a couple lenses. The bride and groom haven't asked me to take pics; they're not paying me; and I have no intention of trying to sell prints to them (or anyone else at the wedding). I will specifically make sure to stay OUT of the photographer's way, out of respect for the job they do. At that point, I am just a guest with a nice camera taking photos, right?
The pro photographer would not have any right to "walk" just because I'm shooting pictures with a DSLR, any more than they would have a right to "walk" if I were shooting with a point-and-shoot--would they?
So legally, is there a difference between the above scenario (showing up at a wedding with a high-end camera and taking pics) and being invited by the bride and groom to come with the camera and take pics (for free)?
When I got married we put disposable cameras on the reception tables, so guests could take pics, leave the cameras, and we'd get the film developed. In other words--we were inviting guests to take pics for us. This did not seem to be an issue with our pro photographers.
Where do you draw the line?

Let's just say.... if the photographer is named Don... and he asks for your ID.... you should run for the door!![]()



I think if you get the camera manual out a few times and fumble with the pages and look confused, you'll probably be OK!![]()

a well worded contract would leave it to the photographer to make the determination on whether you appear to be a professional or not, if they believe you are, they would most likely discusss this with the bride or groom, who would then have the option of asking you to put your camera away, or risk losing their professional. and all money paid